Saving the World while ruining it.

has anyone else found themselves in a position where they not only do so much for others that it is expected and frowned upon when they don't, then they do something wrong (as most humans do) and it's as if you aren't this superhero anymore? Like all of the good deeds are gone. You are now the enemy...
Its difficult being the consistent strong one then receiving no attention or respect or understanding when needed, I just need to know if I'm completely in my own world here.

Hello BasicHero,

You are not alone in how you feel, this is how many of us feel and I think it is to do with our self-esteem. If you have always done for others and are expected to by others then your own self worth comes from other people's 'opinions.' You'll then put pressure on yourself to be that superhuman! But you know we are human beings and yes we make mistakes, now if your self-worth is all about what other people think, then it becomes a very rocky road. Leading to mental health issues.

You need to help yourself and learn self-care before you can truly help others.

You might like to check out the Steps to Better Self-Esteem forum.

I know that feeling all too well. When I was still serving I was amazing. No joke, one of the best in the business. As my mental condition progressed I was no longer super server, and constantly treated lesser than because my usefulness had faded. When I was queen of the restaurant I never got a complement, any recognition of any kind to show I was important, and I gave 100% every day. Until I couldn't. Then they couldn't get enough of pointing out every mistake, and all the things I used to be able to do that I was no longer doing. It's sad that a person can't be praised for their achievements, but will always be criticized for their faults. People are 85%more likely to complain than complement. The general masses are douchebags. Appreciate yourself, in the end it's all that matters