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Old Jun 14, 2010, 04:05 PM
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It's bad enough that I keep getting rejected by men. Now I got this joker chasing after me. Here's a janitor who works in my building on my floor that I have to avoid everytime.. I walk around the hallway and I notice that he keeps lurking @ me. Whenever he's around me he gets to close or to friendly. Now everytime I see him, I turn the other way. Now I know how certain men feel when I chase after them. It's like I'm getting karma. This janitor makes me feel very uncomfortable.. If this gets serious I may have to report him. Thank god he only works on my floor 2hrs a day. I just have to stay as far away from him as I possibly can.
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Old Jun 14, 2010, 04:22 PM
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He sounds creepy! You're doing the right thing by going the other way. If you ever need to, can you have a co-worker walk with you? Go with your instincts, & you're right to report him if necessary.
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Old Jun 14, 2010, 04:23 PM
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It's bad enough that I keep getting rejected by men. Now I got this joker chasing after me. Here's a janitor who works in my building on my floor that I have to avoid everytime.. I walk around the hallway and I notice that he keeps lurking @ me. Whenever he's around me he gets to close or to friendly. Now everytime I see him, I turn the other way. Now I know how certain men feel when I chase after them. It's like I'm getting karma. This janitor makes me feel very uncomfortable.. If this gets serious I may have to report him. Thank god he only works on my floor 2hrs a day. I just have to stay as far away from him as I possibly can.
You know you really don't have to put up with his crap. Think of all the OTHER women he's probably harassing. There is absolutely no reason whatsoever for you to have to change your own behavior because of his reactions. If I were you (which I'm not; I'm a man), I'd report him in a flash. This is just not acceptable behavior on his part. And it sounds like it's time for him to learn that lesson.

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Old Jun 15, 2010, 04:56 AM
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I agree with, Ygrec23.
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Old Jun 15, 2010, 09:26 AM
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You know you really don't have to put up with his crap. Think of all the OTHER women he's probably harassing. There is absolutely no reason whatsoever for you to have to change your own behavior because of his reactions. If I were you (which I'm not; I'm a man), I'd report him in a flash. This is just not acceptable behavior on his part. And it sounds like it's time for him to learn that lesson.

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He probably got the message b/c recently he noticed I've been avoiding him and hasn't come near me or spoken to me so far. But as I said before if he gets out of hand, I'll have no choice but to report him and I'm sure other women will also if he harrassed.
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Old Jun 15, 2010, 02:18 PM
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He probably got the message b/c recently he noticed I've been avoiding him and hasn't come near me or spoken to me so far. But as I said before if he gets out of hand, I'll have no choice but to report him and I'm sure other women will also if he harrassed.

Yes, go ahead & report him. Don't wait. The sooner something is done about him, the better off everyone will be, I think.
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