[radio_flyer]

Geeeeeeeesh I don't know how this happens to me...All I do is make the breakfast and try to make sure AJ gets to work.. As everyone knows, it took a long time for him to be employed.. He has been told if he is late one more time he is fired........ So common sense would be to make sure one gets to work...

AJ and his girlfriend "the drama queen" fights over the pills she is addicted for every night till 3 am... ALL I do is make the breakfast.. AJ didn't answer his phone wake up call so I go upstairs and his girlfriend is all dressed for work sitting at the table and she snaps at me that AJ needs a few snooze minutes.. I snap back and said he doesn't need to "snooze" he needs to get up for work.... She gets snappy again and I snap back, well you make enough money you can make his car payments and support him should he lose his job..

OOOOOOO I hurt her feelings and AJ gets up and vents at me.... I told him to stopppppppppp....I told him his job is his re sponsibility.. His girl is his responsibility.. and He need not blame me for their problems.. Good trick on her to turn the table on me.. Get the attention on me and off her..

I'm not upset because I am not in the wrong.. Might have been best not to have said what I did... Seems again, the mother in me took over and the only thing I am concerned about is AJ's job........ Her addiction and the fighting every night is not my problem.. I would just like AJ to keep his job....

Something more is wrong with this picture... AS AJ's girlfriend is still upstairs.. She hasn't gone to work.. Looks like she doesn't have to be at work at any certain time....Yet she knows AJ does... She didn't go to work yesterday either.......

JUst talking... I don't even know why because I'm not upset other than the job issue with AJ... Again I need to let go...... His res ponsibility for work.. He can't change her... ANd all of this crap is going to mess up his job... And I will get blamed because I hurt her feelings... I don't even go upstairs or bother them.... ALl I do is make the breakfast, which as of today, has stpped........

In the beginning I thought ooooooooo wow , this looks too good to be true.... and was hearing wedding bells for AJ.......... All I can say now is "all that glitters is not gold"..... Something too good to be true oh darn I forget how that saying goes.. lol.............

((((((((((((((((((((((((radio flyer))))))))))))))))))))))))))I hears ya!!!

[radio_flyer]

Thanks theodora....

Dang.. she hasn't gone to work yet.. .Hear lots of banging tho.. hmmmmmm Two days in a row and she hasn't gone to work......

Smacks my head with soft pillow.. Butt oout mama... Nothing upstairs is my business.... wipes brow...

You are in my thought, caring mama.

[radio_flyer]

Byz... thanks... Do believe I've been down this road before....

Gessh he hasn't even had his car a month and he already has a reckless driving ticket...*speeding ticket...15 miles over speed limit*

He has't been drinking, guess he is making up for it in other ways..

Hides head in sand and decides to dig a hole to China and ditches all the drama here..

[Yoda]

I thought kids left home and took care of themselves after the teen years. It seems neither your nor my son read that part of 'the manual'. What can we do? We can't force them to be responsible.

[radio_flyer]

Actually this house is to be AJ's house soon.. We were hoping he'd be getting married soon so the house could be put in his name and move on. I honestly thought this girl he is seeing "is/was" great... Just don't get an attitude with me cuz I've got an attitude too..

I have never once pushed my nose in the business. I only wanted AJ to get to work on time...

ANYway, I told AJ's dad and he talked to AJ. He told AJ that he can't take change her. He told him she needs to go to another doctor and if the new doctor says she needs the meds then so be it.. He also reminded AJ that should he get married to anyone using that much meds, there could be serious problems with their children should they have any....... SO AJ's dad cooled everything down....

I am laying low....