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Old Apr 21, 2012, 08:34 AM
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To stop putting things off as the procrastinating is not helping; it's actually making me worry more and the anxiety is rising. I'm concerned I won't do it right or will mess it up somehow; however, not doing it is messing things up too putting thins on hold. Doing something will be better than nothing. So I will tell myself, to start with 10 minutes, a break for 10, and go from there.
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Old Apr 21, 2012, 04:40 PM
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to just keep getting something accomplished each day, even if it is not a lot.
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Old Apr 21, 2012, 05:35 PM
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To stop over analyzing everything
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Old Apr 21, 2012, 05:37 PM
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Tongiht, I will get into comfy jammies and have pizza while watching NCIS
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Old Apr 21, 2012, 09:30 PM
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Today I will tell myself, that this too shall pass !!!!!
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Old Apr 22, 2012, 03:15 AM
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That worrying is rather pointless
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Old Apr 23, 2012, 05:19 AM
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Today I will tell myself to get things in orrder around the house...spring cleaning start I guess.
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Old Apr 23, 2012, 05:34 PM
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that tomorrow is another day.
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Old Apr 23, 2012, 09:21 PM
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Today I will tell myself- it is ok to give out a little exposure to another that may in fact share some same struggles as myself -- irl though.. O-o (I already sent the email so I guess I already did this).... Hope it goes ok.
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Old Apr 24, 2012, 07:59 AM
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That today is a good day
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Old Apr 24, 2012, 11:32 AM
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Everything I'm telling myself is only making me feel worse.
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Old Apr 24, 2012, 11:47 AM
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Today I will remind myself that people aren't really as mean and judgemental as my paranoia mind believes they are.
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Old Apr 24, 2012, 06:58 PM
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Today, I will tell myself that my work crew like me just as I am and not to tear my self esteem down as I do.
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Old Apr 24, 2012, 07:27 PM
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today i will tell myself that it is ok to accept that i have flaws, and after accepting, try to figure out what to do to make those flaws not so bad.
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Old Apr 24, 2012, 07:32 PM
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Today I will tell myself that I did well today at the office while working through a major (personal) crisis.
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Old Apr 25, 2012, 06:54 AM
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To really try to act opposite of the feeling of wanting to crawl into bed and hide from the world, and to do the appointments and things instead. It's overwhelming though, and bed seems like peace, but perhaps by taking action it will undercut feeling so overwhelmed.
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Life shrinks or expands in proportion to one's courage. -Anaïs Nin.
It is very rare or almost impossible that an event can be negative from all points of view.
-Dalai Lama XIV
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Old Apr 25, 2012, 07:17 AM
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Today I will tell myself I am grateful to be employed.
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Old Apr 25, 2012, 08:02 AM
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That life is good
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Old Apr 25, 2012, 03:12 PM
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Today, I will tell myself to concentrate and not to feel bad about taking frequent breaks in between. And also I will tell myself that I'm still smart and will progress to my degree despite my "mediocre" grades.

Hey, at least I'm passing.
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Old Apr 26, 2012, 04:37 AM
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Today I will tell myself to stop concentrating on why I might be doing wrong or forgetting to do, and concentrate on work at hand and getting each smaller job completed...one step at a time.
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Old Apr 26, 2012, 05:24 AM
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Today I will tell myself to relax.... all in do time.....
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Old Apr 26, 2012, 11:11 AM
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today I will tell myself that I am going to be strong, firm, kind and communicative and stand up for myself to facilitate change for the positive.
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Old Apr 26, 2012, 01:47 PM
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today i will tell myself i shouldn't say my life is falling apart, that i really ****ed up this time .. not till he reads the emails and what happens after. i have told him the most of what i wrote.. he still said he loved me, i shouldn't believe he was lying
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Old Apr 26, 2012, 02:26 PM
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to eat something and KEEP IT DOWN!
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Old Apr 26, 2012, 02:29 PM
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Today I will tell myself that I will survive and I will go on.
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