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Old May 18, 2012, 05:59 AM
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Today I will tell myself- after work- I need to just relax and not think about work at all after I get away from it-

It is a waste of time literally while I am at work, while I am away at work.

I need not to think of it too much due to this woman- she is just mean to everyone and she is just being mean- she is trying to get a rouse out me, and it is not worth it.
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Old May 18, 2012, 06:29 AM
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Today I will tell myself to step outside and soak up some sunshine during my break times.
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Old May 18, 2012, 09:32 AM
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another thing i will tell myself today is
people that expect me to wait on them hand and foot, it's their problem of expecting me to. i shouldn't have to, i am still caring and responsive but i have a life of my own too. if they do't like it they needto deal with it.



i shouldn't feel bad for me.
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Old May 19, 2012, 06:50 AM
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that I can be like the Energizer bunny, to get done all that I need to; going, going, going........
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Old May 19, 2012, 11:44 AM
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Today I will remind myself to go with what a friend told me and just go with the flow (like the tide) and to be flexible.
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Old May 19, 2012, 12:13 PM
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Today I will tell myself I am no longer that helpless abused child. Today I will tell myself that just because other people try to treat me like dirt, doesn't mean I am dirt. Today I give myself permission to speak; even though I was scared into hiding the truth for far too long. Today I will tell myself that I am an okay person; that I don't mistreat others; that I don't need to feel shame for being alive and that I deserve my spot on the planet just as much as everyone else deserves his or hers. Today I will give thanks to God for all of the gifts I have. Today I will pray that everyone else who suffers like I have can have relief and a measure of joy.
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Old May 20, 2012, 12:25 PM
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Today I will tell myself I am no longer that helpless abused child. Today I will tell myself that just because other people try to treat me like dirt, doesn't mean I am dirt. Today I give myself permission to speak; even though I was scared into hiding the truth for far too long. Today I will tell myself that I am an okay person; that I don't mistreat others; that I don't need to feel shame for being alive and that I deserve my spot on the planet just as much as everyone else deserves his or hers. Today I will give thanks to God for all of the gifts I have. Today I will pray that everyone else who suffers like I have can have relief and a measure of joy.
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Old May 20, 2012, 12:29 PM
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Today- I am going to tell myself- Have Fun- This is mine and my Significant others' day-

Yesterday was a big picture blown up for me on how his parents really are and I will continue to remind myself- their ignorance, their suggestions on LYING, HIDING Things, and whatever that was hidden message-- I do not have to suffer by - ignorance is a choice with these people (they type of ignorance where they full well knowingly something but yet still choose to do it)- they were requested not to do something and yet still did it, and not only that in ways made fun of me and yada yada-- I don't have to put up with it- I should not be self harming myself either due to it all- Today will be a good day, and It is a new day, and it is a day to say- I love my significant other but I don't have put up with his family's BS!~ which we already talked about last night.

Today Is New day today is day to stand for what I believe in and just shower my love to my significant other- forget the rest that does not approve of us.
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Old May 20, 2012, 01:12 PM
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That I'm gonna feel better tomorrow.
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Old May 20, 2012, 01:31 PM
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clean up more clutter, maybe I'll feel better.
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Old May 20, 2012, 05:28 PM
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Do not regret past mistakes. Look forward to not repeating them and creating all kinds of new mistakes.
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Old May 21, 2012, 12:32 AM
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Today I will tell myself to do and not think about doing just freaking do it!
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Old May 21, 2012, 03:48 AM
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Today I will tell myself that a friend who helps me appreciate how flawed I am, without also helping me believe I am of value, is probably not a good friend to keep around.
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Old May 21, 2012, 02:38 PM
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Today that I will tell myself that there will be little hiccups here and there at the new office and to just go with the flow
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Old May 21, 2012, 03:08 PM
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Today I will tell myself that a friend who helps me appreciate how flawed I am, without also helping me believe I am of value, is probably not a good friend to keep around.
I concur Rose76--

And you are worth much Value! we all have flaws it is what makes us, us, in ways as well.
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Old May 21, 2012, 03:48 PM
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Today I will tell myself I made the right decision this time in choosing workplaces.
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Old May 22, 2012, 11:20 AM
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... the usual lies.
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Old May 23, 2012, 12:51 AM
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Today I will tell myself- It is ok to feel relieved to get that off of my chest... it is sad that I have to tell myself that, but I need to tell myself it is ok for me to share my feelings
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Old May 23, 2012, 03:25 AM
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I've gotten through an awful lot---things that would have crunched someone not as tough.

I am tough. I can do what I need to do.

And I can feel good about it---perhaps the biggest obstacle of all.
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Old May 23, 2012, 06:08 AM
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Today, I will tell myself to love me.
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Old May 23, 2012, 02:27 PM
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I tell myself "You are gonna pay for all this laziness." Then I reply "I con't care."
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Old May 24, 2012, 05:19 AM
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I will tell myself to tidy up and get back on track with my diet (not a weight loss diet). I have begun ot eat the wrong foods again. and not enough of the right foods.
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Old May 24, 2012, 07:10 AM
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that I can leave yesterday in the past and begin again with a fresh start.
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Old May 25, 2012, 05:25 AM
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... there is something very wrong with one who frequents a toxic place.
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Old May 25, 2012, 05:52 AM
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I'll tell myself I have plenty of time. I have the whole day and I have to pack and get ready to travel tomorrow. I can take it easy and do a little at a time.

Or, I'll try to tell myself that. I do feel stressed...
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