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Old Jul 09, 2012, 11:26 AM
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To let it go, let it be, let it work itself out. Circumstances outside of my control = not my responsibility.
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Old Jul 09, 2012, 11:41 AM
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Today I'm telling myself that I accept the life I've been given. I understand that acceptance doesn't mean that this is the way it will be forever, but that this is where I am now and I will be content. I am okay. I am present.
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Old Jul 09, 2012, 11:56 AM
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TIWTM-- (I like that RosePanachee trying to Abbreviate it lol)...

that things will pass, this again is just another part of my story of my life...
Also maybe I should spot clean the carpet more often- this strange ritual has made me so happy due to it looks cleaner... with this it reminds me, it is amazing what a small thing can do to improve how things look.. i.e. like my attitude on something with a small tweek can improve how it looks..
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Old Jul 10, 2012, 09:46 PM
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To remember the four important words; priority, purpose, communication and confidence.
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Old Jul 10, 2012, 10:26 PM
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When we focus on problems we get more problems, when we focus on possibilities we get more possiblities.
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Old Jul 11, 2012, 05:15 AM
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When we focus on problems we get more problems, when we focus on possibilities we get more possiblities.
Thank you for this It is something I have to remind my self constantly about.

Today I will tell myself-- let it be with what it is, and do the best that I can with what I have.
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Old Jul 11, 2012, 05:17 AM
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That I am a wonderful person.....
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Old Jul 11, 2012, 07:20 AM
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that with this new day, it can be a fresh start.
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Old Jul 11, 2012, 07:28 AM
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Hard work, is work done well. It is a result of my effort, not their punishment.
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Old Jul 11, 2012, 08:27 AM
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today i need to really remind and tell myself that yes all i can contol is myself, not others, even if i am the product of the ''fool'' to others..

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Old Jul 11, 2012, 12:11 PM
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Today I will tell myself that having my rent check bounce for the first time in 5 years of living here is not the end of the world, and, besides, the property manager who runs this complex is far from perfect in his services to tenants. I don't ask him to fix even half the stuff I could ask him to fix. (Half my windows don't open and were that way when I moved in.) (Sounds like I'm rationalizing a bit too much.)
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Old Jul 11, 2012, 01:58 PM
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When we anticipate a positive future everything tilts in that direction.
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Old Jul 11, 2012, 02:53 PM
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Today I will tell myself that I can sort out the incurred superfluous expenses for the cancellation of my holiday and maybe still get away for a few days in autumn and if it's on my credit card. What has happened, has happened and I can sort things out if I call them during my lunch break. I shall try to sleep tonight!
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Old Jul 11, 2012, 03:06 PM
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To remember six important words; attitude, acceptance, communication, confidence, priority and purpose. A-A-C-C-P-P.
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Old Jul 12, 2012, 04:18 PM
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Hugs, Rose---I had a landlord like that---boy was she ever mean. I used to roast in that apartment, and she never ever bothered to get those windows unstuck.

I would not beat yourself up too much about the rent check----! It happens to the best people.

And, for me, my WIWTMT: The money problems that make me feel so lousy are 99% NOT our fault---and so, beating myself up, and losing precious time to this issue, is really pointless. It will all get fixed as soon as it CAN be fixed---and that is all there is to it.
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Old Jul 12, 2012, 04:52 PM
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That I don't always have to be strong. I can let go sometimes and truly experience my emotions to their fullest extent.
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Old Jul 12, 2012, 05:05 PM
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Today-- I am saying-- "PUT THAT Puzzle Piece down Beauflow-- put it down, let some things fall into place.. you don't have to fix everything or figure it out.. let some of this roll by and see what goes on." yep me saying you when I mean me or i.. sigh--
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Old Jul 13, 2012, 02:29 PM
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today i will tell myself not to over analyze why. he already explained why he believes what he does and it makes sense. by my over analyzing i'm creating problems and ideas that probably aren't even there. i will also tell myself that it's ok for me to be kind by acknowledding their existants, even to those who have hurt me a lot in the past but kindness does not mean to let them push me around and let their chaos in my life again
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Old Jul 13, 2012, 03:44 PM
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today i also need to tell myself not to be too hard on myself for feeling like a failure with trying to help others out, but at the same time i haven't been well well myself so maybe i should back off a little on that. need to remind myself i haven't been sleepin well this week and i could be coming off differently than what i may think. be well all
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Old Jul 13, 2012, 06:26 PM
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to hold onto those feel good moments
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Old Jul 13, 2012, 11:11 PM
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Let go of who you think you're supposed to be and embrace who you are.
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Old Jul 14, 2012, 02:16 AM
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Today I will tell myself- take an easy with some things, be kinder to myself on some things, and keep trying
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Old Jul 14, 2012, 03:57 AM
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today i'll tell myself that not everything is worthless , that by working hard even i can realise something !!
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Old Jul 14, 2012, 07:02 AM
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That the nightmares are just that and cannot harm me, to let them go, and know it is how I handle the waking moments that will matter. It is a new beginning on Monday and the other things are in the past and are just that, past.
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Old Jul 14, 2012, 07:09 AM
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Today I am telling myself- Don't let them push me around, I can take control of what I want to be involved with and what I do not want to be involved with. To Remind MySelf that It Is Ok To Be The Sympathetic Ear However IT IS NOT OK To BE The Punching Bag.

Wishing myself strength to day to as well
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