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Old Jun 17, 2012, 02:24 AM
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I have a right to be happy... I don't have to hide from what scares me

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Old Jun 17, 2012, 04:37 AM
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today i will try to tell myself to find something to do, rather than wallowing in overwhelming thoughts and emotions
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Old Jun 17, 2012, 05:00 AM
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... that harboring resentment is not a safe shelter.
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Old Jun 17, 2012, 06:25 AM
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... to relax after work and rest my feet.
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Old Jun 17, 2012, 01:36 PM
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. . . to stop whining about everything.
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Old Jun 17, 2012, 03:06 PM
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Be grateful for what I have. Depression only lets you see the negative.
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Old Jun 17, 2012, 05:51 PM
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...try not to worry about the work issue I caused today. The crew were all good about it, but I am beating myself up still about the mistake. I never want to be the cause of a problem. I cannot overthink it.
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Old Jun 17, 2012, 06:15 PM
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... no rhubarbs for you today, mister.
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Old Jun 17, 2012, 06:27 PM
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You have to do better.
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Old Jun 17, 2012, 06:30 PM
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Small people do small, vindictive things. It doesn't really matter if people say things behind your back or in secret. Nobody that is worth caring about will believe.
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Old Jun 18, 2012, 07:44 AM
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today i will tell myself, don't let the choas of someone's mean things ruin my life, esp. another that is just an outsider... in by doing that, they have less control to which is what they want on why they are being mean... i don't get it (why be mean to get controll) and yeah it's triggering for me, but i don't have to get why they do this, just of what I do.
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Old Jun 18, 2012, 07:52 AM
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Today I will tell myself to not expect perfection....in attempting it, I usually flub up. If i can accept mistakes by others, I should accept it from myself also.
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Old Jun 18, 2012, 09:49 AM
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Today I will tell myself...Get off your lazy *** and clean the house!
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Old Jun 18, 2012, 02:58 PM
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that life might hold some good things for me, yet. It's all up to me, really.
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Old Jun 18, 2012, 03:42 PM
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Today I will tell myself that I am not worthless.
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Old Jun 18, 2012, 03:50 PM
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Today I will tell myself...Get off your lazy *** and clean the house!

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Old Jun 18, 2012, 03:57 PM
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today i will tell myself (also) --- it may sound negative but I sort of hope they do take me to court if they want to give me problems (*medical bill collectors)-- i have been trying my best, i have no assets to my name, and I have been paying on my debt every month. Let them come at me, all I know is that i have been trying with what means that I have-- let them try to bully me, all I know is what I can do and am able to do... let 'em! Hopefully they will be understanding though, and accept my payments that I give them.
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Old Jun 18, 2012, 04:23 PM
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Are court ordered payments based on income? Hopefully they end up with less per month than they've been getting. Is it hospital? If they take federal funds they do have some obligations to write off low income peoples debt under Hill Burton Act. Good Luck with this.
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Old Jun 18, 2012, 04:51 PM
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I wonder when I will get my first check...
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Old Jun 19, 2012, 06:15 PM
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To be patient and the book will arrive when it arrives.
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Old Jun 19, 2012, 07:51 PM
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today i will say-- maybe I should be escalating what is going on-- it is probably for the best even though I am scared to.
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Old Jun 20, 2012, 02:19 AM
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Today I will tell myself to remember that yesterday I discovered my need is for joy - and to stay with that, find strategies, and move towards happiness.
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Old Jun 20, 2012, 08:27 AM
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To day I will tell myself- NOT To play things out in my head, Right Now I just need to wait, wait and see what the responses are of this matter.
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Old Jun 20, 2012, 08:57 AM
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....to try to stay strong and to not be so vindictive toward my ex-husaband.
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Old Jun 21, 2012, 03:25 AM
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I need to stay awake at work. Working the night shift.
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