My mum died

How you holding up hon? I've been thinking about you!

You have lost something that will never come again but you will always feel her presence in your every walks of life.

Mums funeral is next Tuesday, I need to try and get my head together as some of my family want me to write a poem but I can't think straight.

One thing I wish for right now is to have my mum back, There is so much I didn't get to tell her.

I know you will get it together and write a nice poem. You are still in shock right now.

I am sorry for your loss.

I found the loss really didn't hit until the services were over and life returned to "normal". During the silence, it felt the hardest and yet it was then that I could best release my grief. I wish you strength and comfort through the hardest times.

Thinking of you

I am very emotional today, I am so not coping.

one day at a Time Tink ((hugs and good thoughts your way))

((((Tinkerbell))))

Thinking of you. Know we are here for you and we care. I know things are very emotional and hard. Keep posting and reaching out.

Hugs and loving thoughts. Always.

dps

Just let it come. It is healthy and natural. Nobody expects too much of you right now and remember...most of those things we wish we had told them....they knew anyway. Lots of love, Tink.

I'm so sorry hunni!! Massive hugs!! I haven't been on here much and i'm so sorry i missed this!! Thank you for sending me the link!! ((((((((((((((((((((Tinkerbell))))))))))))))) Love you hun! I'm here if you need me!!

Hello Tinkerbell i'm really sorry for your loss.

i only received your message now and want to apologise as i have not been on here lately so am hoping you find the strength to get through this and i will say a prayer for you as i go church on the weekend so will do then.

All the best and your mum will be looking down on you and be proud of who you are as your a caring and very sincere person. She will look after you in spirit. xxx

Today has been awful, I have been to order flowers for mums funeral I found it too much

I'm sorry Tinkerbell That had to be very difficult.

(((Tinks)))) continued thoughts Are with you!

Thinking of you Tink. One day at a time.

I am so sorry for your sudden loss, Tinkerbell.

(((((Tinkerbell))))) I'm very sorry to hear of your loss. That it was sudden and unexpected makes it extremely hard. Try not to be alone, if you can manage that. Of course, we are here, however we can help. Love and Hugs.

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Thank you all for your thoughts.

I placed a verse in my local paper today.

I also wrote this in Creative corner.

This is from me and hubby

M is for the Many things she gave me
O is Only that she was growing old
T is for the Tears she often shed for me
H is for her Heart as pure as gold
E is for her Eyes that shone so brightly
R is for the many Riches she gave to me
Put them altogether they spell MOTHER,
The dearest one in all the world to me.

This one is from the kids.

You've chosen an angel,
There's no finer than
For God in your wisdom,
You've chosen our Nan.

This is beautiful

I'm so glad you have your family around you. Thanks for sharing the verses with us. You have kids to be proud of. Sounds like your mum left a good legacy of love. HUGS, Rose

((Tinkerbell)) I agree that is beautiful and that you have your family around you, and your doggy too

((Truly from the heart))

many hugs to you

tinkerbell

I am sorry that I missed your post before today......wanted to let you know how much I understand the pain you are going through.....whether sudden or not (father was sudden, mother was not) loosing parents is the hardest thing to go through. My prayers are with you & your family that God will guide you through the grieving process & give you the peace that you need to get through all the stages that grief takes for you & all your family