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Old Aug 22, 2014, 06:45 PM
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f you've ever told a lie and felt uncomfortable because you see yourself as scrupulously honest, then you've experienced cognitive dissonance. It occurs whenever your view of yourself clashes with your performance in any area—you see yourself as smart but can't believe you made such dumb stock investments. Exactly how we choose to resolve the dissonance (and its accompanying discomfort) is a good reflection of our mental health. In fact, cognitive dissonance can be a great opportunity for growth. Cognitive Dissonance | Psychology Today
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Fighting Cognitive Dissonance & The Lies We Tell Ourselves | World of Psychology
Cognitive Dissonance Theory | Simply Psychology
According to Festinger, we hold many cognitions about the world and ourselves; when they clash, a discrepancy is evoked, resulting in a state of tension known as cognitive dissonance. As the experience of dissonance is unpleasant, we are motivated to reduce or eliminate it, and achieve consonance (i.e. agreement).
Cognitive dissonance is an interesting topic. To be of benefit, we must be willing to put our egos aside and and take an honest, thorough look at the validity of what we believe.

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Old Aug 22, 2014, 08:53 PM
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We can learn to overcome cognitive dissonance and become emotionally congruent. Much of what can be called "cognitive dissonance" is old habits that need to be broken. We can start with simple, small steps such as making an effort to keep our facial expression, vocal tone, and internal emotion the same - i.e., congruent.
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Old Aug 22, 2014, 10:40 PM
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That however involves taking the mask off. I kinda like my mask, it protects me from pain.
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