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is it possible for a caregiver to care about a client? or is it only to make money? i can imagine they don't want to have it on their conscience to have a client loving them more than just a care provider.. but i don't really understand since they are careproviders.
secondly, is it possible to talk with them outside the "hopsital"? |
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Yes, they do care. I've known many therapist and doctors outside of my own and they all cared and even worried about their clients.
As far your second question, some continue to see clients on an outpatient basis but don't. It just depends on their practice.
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It is definitely possible for a caregiver to actually care about a client. Most people who go into a "caring" profession do so because they like/care about other people.
Am not sure what you mean about seeing a client outside the hospital. If you mean in a professional capacity it might be possible. It would depend on if the caregiver provides services outside the hospital. If you mean seeing a client in on a personal basis, most caring professions have rules against that. |
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- facebook. - out door, by coincidence: parties, studies, restaurants, groups etc. i don't really have my life back on track right now, for example i just don't have a school and don't go anywhere except gym, because im actually kinda afraid i feel out of place fast. when i just join somewhere, no idea either where i should go, because i feel weird around people. im afraid i will never see this guy again, because we were like, i don't know, okay. im not sure if it was because i was all loveydovey around him, but i really trusted him. i know circumstances can change when a person feels "love" for another, but it might be my lonelyness and i can discuss it though i don't know how, because i don't want him to know anything about it. maybe he doesn't even want any contact with me and he gets bothered with "YEE, NOW YOU CAN TALK WITH JARA AGAIN, HOORAY, A WIDER VERSION OF YOUR JOBCONTRACT" i feel emberassed alot about the diary i gave him before i they dismissed me out of the hostel (it's not a hospital, more some mental health clinic, like that's the reason i posted it here, i mention just to be sure). ofcourse when you're in "love" or like someone alot you can be really clumsy, but this went a way too far.. tho "i haven't been there for no reason, and they'll understand" i keep saying too myself. no one knows what i wrote in there, i'd love it to ask someday haha. so yeah, i wondered, to sum it up: "1. do the rules differ in different countries? 2. is it against the rules to see someone outside and just, i don't know, talk with the person? because it sounds very normal to me. 3. would it be allowed to give an answer on facebook?" |
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I don't know what the rules are in Holland. Here in the US professionals are told to avoid relationships like Facebook and the like with clients or former clients. It opens the door for a whole set of possible ethical problems.
As for seeing the person face-to-face on the street. Again, I don't know the rules in Holland, but here in the US the professional should follow the lead of the client. If the client approaches and talks to them it's okay to respond. If the client acts as if they don't know the professional, they should also act like they don't know the client. Does taht help? |
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i get the rule tho. it'd be weird for them to be fired if a client talks to them. they can't help it ![]() but it sounds like you've worked there too, so just a question: have you ever worked with someone who'd you thought of more than "just a client?" would that be possible? |
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Yes, therapists can want to have a relationship with a client outside the professional setting, but it is not allowed. The kind of caring you ask about is exactly why there are ethical rules and laws about therapists and clients being in a relationship. It's not allowed because harm can come to the client. For what it's worth, it is not unusual for a client to want to have more of a relationship with a therapist. |
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it's maybe a weird question, but would it be possible to see someone other than your own sis, as a sis? and even then.. i can't imagine any harm coming from just talking with a dude outside the clinic. like what. i thought about it alot. |
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To answer your question above, I believe it is possible to have feelings for non-family members like you have for relatives. I have friends I care for very deeply. They are like family to me. |
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