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Old May 16, 2017, 12:58 PM
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People who are willing to forgive/give you a 2nd chance....
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Old May 16, 2017, 01:02 PM
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Leejosepho! Me too, because of my brothers and sons too (I have 42 years membership in Boy Scouting) ..but also I'm a lifetime Girl Scout
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Old May 16, 2017, 01:23 PM
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When someone is real.
What I mean by that is someone who displays transparency and authenticity.
I dislike hypocrisy and fake ppl.
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Old May 16, 2017, 04:41 PM
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Loyalty...people who stay by you no matter what.

You don't walk away if you love someone. You help the person. -Hillary Clinton
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Problem is if...all they are doing is hurting you then loyalty only ends up hurting yourself.
Different issue. The question here is about valuing the loyalty of the other person who does not walk away when we are in need.
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Old May 16, 2017, 04:48 PM
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Leejosepho! Me too, because of my brothers and sons too (I have 42 years membership in Boy Scouting) ..but also I'm a lifetime Girl Scout.
Scouting sometimes takes a beating because of its "God and Country" theme or whatever else, but it presents a moral compass that has yet to be proved defective.
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Old May 16, 2017, 04:58 PM
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True. What we might be discussing in this thread are personal foundations based upon / created by societal mores, as one cannot have a "moral compass" without God, otherwise it constantly moves as society deems more things acceptable based upon people's attitudes.

I'd like to think, and as I read this thread, that these are truly non-moveable norms we expect in others.
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Old May 16, 2017, 05:08 PM
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What we might be discussing in this thread are personal foundations based upon / created by societal mores...

I'd like to think, and as I read this thread, that these are truly non-moveable norms we expect in others.
I think 10 of the 12 could fit there:

Trustworthy...
Loyal...
Helpful...
Friendly...
Courteous...
Kind...
----------------Obedient...
Cheerful...
Thrifty...
Brave...
Clean...
----------------Reverent...
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Old May 17, 2017, 08:49 AM
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Problem is if you cant trust the person & all they are doing is hurting you then loyalty only ends up hurting yourself. Sadly unfounded loyalty is why so many people stay in abusive relationships. That kind of loyalty is NOT wise
Well, I was just answering for myself...because I know that I'm not perfect and I make mistakes, but I always admit to them and try to work on myself. So I value it when people accept that and are willing to work with me and not just leave, probably because I've had so many walk away when things got hard...my own mother, my foster parents, friends, etc.
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