[lostangel]

I just found out today that a good friend of my from high school. his wife just passaway in march 21. she left him two boys. they been together since high school.

see what i mean about life being too short. my mom and sister and niece not talking to me and life is too short. my dad and i are not talking and i have not seen my brother since the 80s....why does it take a death for people to open their eyes up....

so sorry to hear of the death of your friends wife........and unfortuneately.it often does take a tradgedy for us to look at life differently........

[lostangel]

it does. i mean i seen people around me die and i have two people in my life that are dieing and you do see life different. i just hope my mom and sister come around before it is too late. but thanks.

i'm so sorry for the loss of your friend's wife.......i, too, hope your mom and sister get enlightened.........xoxox pat

[lostangel]

thank you so much. and i hope too...

[darkeyes]

It is sad that it takes one's passing to do that.
Unfortunately, as strange as it sounds it seems like not an uncommon thing, I agree life is much too short, grudges that seperate people and such, waste precious time we can spend with friends and loved ones.
Losing a loved one I agree, makes you see life differently from that moment and the years that follow, some of it becomes a valued life's lesson, while the other leaves heavy hearts that are breaking, leaving only time to be our healer. I lost my dad, going on 3yrs now, I miss him so, we were best of friends.
I have removed grudges from my life, I grumble a little and then let it go, it can be hard but we all really need to do that.
I am sorry for your loss, I pray for peace and comfort to follow in time, for you and families involved.
Please take care,

DE

[lostangel]

thank you very much and i am sorry you lost your dad too. i wish i can speak to my dad and my brother but i send them this address and phone number and pictures so i guess that is the best i can do. and for my mom and sister and niece all i can do is say how much i am sorry for expressing my feelings and let them know how much i love them. but you are right about grudges that seperate people and such, waste precious time. that i understand so well about. we should spend it with those we love, friends and familys and with our selfs. i try not to let things get to me but it is hard and it hurts. last night i was not sleeping good because everything is brothing me too much.. and it is heavy on my heart..

[darkeyes]

Oh, man, I know those kinds of nights all to well, leaving me like a zombie

You take care now,
Sincerely,
DE

[lostangel]

that is how i felt last night. things were just going through my mind and i could not sleep. when i did sleep i had dreams that didn't make any since. but thank you again. you take too.

[SpazKatt]

I'm so sorry to hear that you and your friend will be in my thoughts! *HUGS*

Prayers to you and your family as well as your friend and his children. I'm so very sorry that things are rough right now. Please take good care of yourself.

Ry

[lostangel]

thank you so much. you guys been great. i will tell him.

Any time dear. Any time.

Ry

[lostangel]

that goes for you too. i am hear too.

Thanks dear. It's nice to have another friend.

Ry

[lostangel]

thanks....