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Jul 12, 2005, 05:35 PM
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To anyone wandering by............
Today is my brother John's birthday; he committed suicide in April 2004; ppl constantly tell me I should be happy & celebrate his birth into this world, for having him as long as I did,,,,,,,,but only tears come..ppl say "get over it".......   ppl have said; Get off the damn cross, use the wood to build a bridge and get over it!!!!Excuse me. I feel sick........... Happy Birthday, John!!!  PEACE TO ALL THOSE WHO HAVE........dayzee9
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Jul 12, 2005, 05:38 PM
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Cry dayzee...all you need to, for as long as you need to, as often as you need to, grieve...grieve your great loss, but also celebrate that he is no longer in the turmoil that he felt, and that he is at peace, and watching over you now. those are my thoughts. (((hugs)))
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Jul 12, 2005, 06:52 PM
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you know I pondered that question. it has only been just over a year. no one can tell you how to grieve or how long to grieve. I think at some point when you are ready you will celebrate his life. But now maybe too soon. I lost a granddaughter 9 yrs ago. I am just now getting to where I don't cry on her birthday or the anniversary of her death. My thoughts are with you.
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Jul 12, 2005, 08:40 PM
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oh dayzee......i'm sorry for your loss......don't listen to what others say.....only you know the extent of your loss.....grieve as long as you need to......
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Jul 12, 2005, 11:46 PM
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((((((((((((((((((Dayzee)))))))))))))))))))))
You take as long as you need to sweety. Hugs and love going out to you. Jen |
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Jul 17, 2005, 09:24 PM
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grief is not dictated by opinion or culture. It is what is in our hearts. Speak about him to all who will listen, we will. Speak about anything that comes to mind. Look for places where you are coulda shoulda woulda okay. I think that was what stuck me in grieving for a very long time. When I was able to let that go the sadness is there but the burden lighter. goodluck.
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