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A dear freind of mine died. I couldn't do a thing to help. It wasn't to long ago. Why can't her death just be a dream? A nightmare? I don't know what to think anymore. I'm just lost in a blank...
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You still cry because you still can be hurt. We are human.
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Darn!
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((((((((HelplessHopeless))))))))
Lots of love and thoughts your way.....Grace |
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(((((((HelplessHopeless))))))))) I'm so sorry you are going through such a rough time right now. I really don't have anything to offer, but know that I am thinking of you. You can PM me if you need to!
-Jen-
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Thank you. Over the past few days I've started to cope. Before my mind would not go on. I had loss my love in poetry. I am know writing again and doing better, but it still hurts. It will always hurt.
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((((HelplessHopeless))))))),
You are going through the grieving process & it all just takes time....the amount of time that you need, not when you or anyone else thinks it should take. I can understand your feelings of being in a dream. I was in the middle of a nightmare at the end of last year when I saw my mother going down hill with her dealing with the cancer that had been operated on just 5 months earlier. Then being kept away from knowing what care she really needed & having a home care RN come in & steel my Mothers identity & other jewelry items along with threats to me. When the RN OD'ed my mother on morphine & she ended up in the hospital again, I remember being there 24/7 wondering if it really was a dream I was experiencing & that I would wake up I is would have never happened. There were so many times I really wasn't inside of myself when I was doing something. Then when she died I was hospitalized for several months because of not being able to eat. Looking back I don't remember much & not many details if any.....not even much about my Mother or anything during that time.....it is a scarry black hole in my life. I hope you are a little comforted to know that what you are feeling & thinking are very normal when someone close to you dies & pray that you have the support you need to get through these feelings that are going on in your life. You really are OK, Debbie
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