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Jun 27, 2010, 04:42 PM
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My daughter died the day after Easter this year. I really need to find someone who has gone through this, so I can not feel so crazy. When she passed away, part of me passed away with her. Is there anyone out there who recently lost a child. Her death was unexpected, she was 20, and we are now dealing with a vehicular manslaughter case with the driver of the motorcycle. Any suggestions or input would be greatly appreciated.
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 Hunny, notz
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Jun 28, 2010, 04:43 AM
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I have not lost a child but wanted to offer you my deepest condolences on the loss of your precious daughter.
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| Hunny, kuddly, lynn P., notz
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Jun 29, 2010, 06:46 PM
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I am so sorry for your loss. I hope you find comfort in many places. Time will take time and time will give you a renewal of your self. And you will never forget your dearest darling daughter and you will always remember and love her.
It is about your loss and that is ok. Please go to my blog (http://notz.psychcentral.net/2009/10/03/13/ )...my writing may ring true for you.
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Jun 29, 2010, 06:55 PM
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I haven't lost a child and can't imagine the pain you're going through. Please accept my deepest sympathy (((Kuddly))). If you go to the bottom of your 'user control panel', you'll see on the right, at the bottom 'others like me' - you might find some other members who have lost a child. I can't recall their names but there are several members who have this pain. I'm sorry again.
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Jun 30, 2010, 04:27 PM
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I lost a granddaughter 14 yrs ago. I think it was the hardest thing I have ever had to go thru. It took a long time to begin the healing. Acceptance was the key but when it is still so new it is very hard to do. I am very sorry for your loss.
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Jul 06, 2010, 01:40 AM
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Kuddly,
Our daughter's friend lost his wife and youngest daughter this year in a plane crash. It is just so sad. Everyday this month I thought of the family because I was near a float plane launch similar to the one they had just taken off from. My condolences go out to you and your family. Hunny
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Jul 06, 2010, 06:59 PM
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Thank you so much for the kind words. A loss is never easy. I can't even imagine losing more than one person. It was sweet of you to take the time.
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Jul 06, 2010, 07:00 PM
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Well i am not there at acceptance yet, but I hear its baby steps. Thanks for the kind words.
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Jul 06, 2010, 07:54 PM
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kuddly yes hon it is baby steps and for you it is still so fresh. one thing to remember is not to try to force yourself thru the steps of grieving. it takes time but it does get easier. also all the first hurt like crazy. first birthday, first christmas....after the first year things tend to start easing up. hang here with us and together we will make it thru.
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Jul 07, 2010, 01:23 AM
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 kuddly )))If you are able, please stay with us all here. Even if you have no words, if you stay it may help. ((( Dearest Notz ))) reading your writing just...I don't know...I just am so very sad and it made me feel comforted...the words come and show me how very sad I am and allow me to be sad, sad for everyone here and sad for our recent loss and sad for me...um, I can't say more now. Hunny
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Jul 24, 2010, 09:56 PM
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i just sent you a message hope you get it soon i pm you
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#12
Jul 24, 2010, 11:30 PM
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Jul 25, 2010, 12:02 AM
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sending you my deapest thought about this so sorry if there is anything I can do please let me know. So sorry we had to meet this way. Please come on as often as you wish you belong here just as much as i do.
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Jul 30, 2010, 11:38 AM
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Hi Just thinking about you and how you are? Let me know if I can do anything for you.
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