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Old Oct 26, 2005, 12:11 PM
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My mother hated doctors and hospitals. She hated her tortured painful life. She begged me to take her home. The place she had spent 27 years mourning, and grieving her lost loved ones and blaming herself.

I am my mothers daughter. Now I fear I could spend
the rest of my life mourning, grieving and blaming myself.

She gave me life. And I repayed her with death.
I'll never know if I did the right thing.
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Old Oct 26, 2005, 12:58 PM
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you wonder if you did the right thing taking her home to die? if that was her wishes no you did not do the wrong thing. My mom died at home right where she wanted to be. I think it makes it easier on them
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Old Oct 26, 2005, 09:49 PM
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Death is a part of life and if you took her home to die you gave her a great gift. Please tell us more, maybe we can help.
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Old Oct 27, 2005, 10:39 PM
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if you helped alleviate her suffering, then you gave her the "quality of life" gift in her last days
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Old Oct 29, 2005, 08:24 AM
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i'm sure that you did the right thing......now you need to break the cycle...
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