[cowboy1]

Thankyou all who have given me your suppot and word's. Even though it's been six month's I still haven't felt or gotten better from what happened in my life with my one and only loved one my wife. I have gotten worse sucludeing myself to not takeing care of myself and other thing's that are important ive just let them go. My will is gone and my drive has left me an empty shell. I thank all of you for trying to help me through this it just isn't working on my end. To many bad dream's and alot of being worthless without her. I have no motivation and can't finde it nomatter what I try. So thankyou once more and this will probably be my last thread for you to have to read and listen to my stupid story. I don't think ill be hear much longer. COWBOY1

[Yoda]

cowboy, when I lost my BF it took me a long time to begin to cope. If you need to take a break from PC then do so but come back when you are ready. I wish I knew how to support you more but everyone grieves differently.

[beauflow]

((Cowboy)) accepting the loss of a loved one takes a lot of time, different stages. if you need a personal break like Yoda has mentioned, please do so for yourself.

Also Cowboy- your story is not stupid, please do not think so--

Many hugs and many good thoughts your way.

May the loved ones in our hearts that are gone be remembered in our memories and may we still speak to them when in need to even if others may not understand.



Good thoughts your way Cowboy

Originally Posted by cowboy1

Thankyou all who have given me your suppot and word's. Even though it's been six month's I still haven't felt or gotten better from what happened in my life with my one and only loved one my wife. I have gotten worse sucludeing myself to not takeing care of myself and other thing's that are important ive just let them go. My will is gone and my drive has left me an empty shell. I thank all of you for trying to help me through this it just isn't working on my end. To many bad dream's and alot of being worthless without her. I have no motivation and can't finde it nomatter what I try. So thankyou once more and this will probably be my last thread for you to have to read and listen to my stupid story. I don't think ill be hear much longer. COWBOY1

You know... I sympathize with you but... didn't you post that you have children? How are they going to take this?

[Open Eyes]

(((Cowboy))),

It has not been that long since your wife's passing. The grieving process really takes time and it sounds like you are really low and experiencing depression. Have you sought help for this?

While I know you loved your wife, she would not want you to be like this. Your wife would want you to find a way to enjoy what life you have left in this world. And you may meet another woman, even a woman who lost her husband and find a way to share with yet another woman. While I know that someone else doesn't seem plausible right now, it could very well happen in your future.

Please find your way to help with this. You sound like you are experiencing some Post tramatic stress and that is very real, but you CAN get to a much better state of mind.

Hugs, and please keep coming to PC and sharing.

(((Hugs))))
Open Eyes