[misschristianmt]

My evil ex stole my now 16yo MR son once he found out he gets an SSI check each month. He has done everything possible for the last 10 years to cause as much pain as possible. I knew it would be harder than I could imagine losing my son to the abusive ex, but I still cannot function. There is no way I can work. I asked my daughter to stay with me until I could get my disability hearing (PTSD, MDD, panic disorder with agoraphobia) and hopefully approval. She moved out. I am SO angry at her. I felt horrible asking her for help, but I told her I had no choice. I am now down to 75 cents in the bank, car insurance was due today so now I cannot drive anywhere because I sure as BLEEP cannot afford a ticket. My landlord is out of town (I think he will get back in 2 weeks, not sure) so I am going to be waiting for him to come kick us out (me and my 5 cats). I tell people the deal and they all say they will help and they do NOTHING! I really need help so badly financially. I even did a GoFundMe and of course I got nothing. FB helped me realize I have no one who cares. The people in this town are so fake. I have been basically telling the town off via my personal FB page as I know either no one will see it or they just will not care. Anyway, I told myself to leave before they could take my car (got a bank loan to get my son back as I knew I should, but my ex told lies and I got no chance to tell my side) so I knew I should have gone before the insurance ran out so I could get to a homeless shelter far enough away that they could not take my car away from me. Ended up not mattering because I cannot pay for gas, the tag or insurance now. I am just so scared. I cry all day every day and have absolutely no one to turn to. I need the GoFundMe to magically get some donations or I am just not sure what will happen to me. I know I cannot work and those bills I talk about are accurate. 25k. SCARY! I have tried praying and that has done no good. Life has been hell for 36 years and no help so I give up. I am just too tired to try anymore. I just found out I will not get food stamps anymore because I have no kids at home anymore. SMH. I cannot win. I keep getting pooped on and no one cares. I just would give anything to be in a position to help people and then say NO like they told me. Or better yet just say okay I will do for you and then do nothing like they did!! Okay I just had to vent. Gonna lose internet so I wish you all well. Oh I did not go because unsure what to do with all 5 cats that I told I would not abandon plus some family heirlooms

[healingme4me]

Your ex must be struggling, financially as well to receive SSI support for your son with IDD, Intellectual Disability Disorder? http://www.medscape.com/viewarticle/782769

Well, has an eviction notice, been served, yet? With the couple of weeks overlap between that and your own disability case finalization, would seem you have legal rights to remain, until a sheriff arrives, at your door to ask you to leave. Maybe by that point, you'll have that cushion of financial support to pay the car insurance and get where you choose to go?

[misschristianmt]

My ex lies about his finances so it may seem on paper he has no money but I know he does because of some of the stuff I have seen that he has. As for the hearing, that will not be until about December and even then it will be another year before the decision.

[healingme4me]

Maybe he makes money under the table? Because anything earned that's taxable income is reported to the federal wage reporting site through the dor. They have access to everything, even bank accounts, ira, savings bonds, securities. I have two special needs children. I'm very familiar with the way it's reviewed.

That's a long time for a decision. What date is July 19?

[misschristianmt]

He sells drugs. I am not sure what else he does, but I know he makes money illegally. Yeah I had to go through hell to get my son a Wii for his gait and to learn how to follow directions (he is 16 but 6 mentally). I guess that is just the way things go here in OK I am not sure. What do you mean 07/19. I dunno what that is or where you saw that because I did not put that anywhere in this post.

[healingme4me]

I must have been thinking about this thread. I have a tendency to photogeniccally recall..

http://forums.psychcentral.com/showthread.php?t=396458

Bummer that he's gotta deal to get extras in life. That's a major complaint about dependency on the system here. Supplementing the supplement creates complacency. Hopefully your son is safe, depends on the clientele I'd suppose.