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Old Oct 19, 2018, 02:47 PM
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My 2y old granddaughter just lost her dad in a shooting. She is well advanced for a 2y old, very good vocabulary. How can I help her, when she repeatedly tells everyone, My daddy got shot. Where is my daddy?
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Old Oct 19, 2018, 07:47 PM
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Hello jules: I noticed this is your first post here on PC. So... welcome to PsychCentral.

I'm sorry I cannot be of help with regard to the tragic situation you describe. Hopefully there will be other members, here on PC, who will have some suggestions they can share. In the meantime, here are links to 5 articles, from PsychCentral's archives, that hopefully may be of some help:

Children and Grief

Children Dealing with Grief

Teaching Children the Skill of Grieving

Talking to Your Child About the Loss of a Loved One, Part 4

Parenting after Traumatic Events: Ways to Support Children

I hope you find PC to be of benefit.
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Old Oct 19, 2018, 07:54 PM
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That's so sad. Sorry your granddaughter is going through that. It is probably hard to explain to her that her dad is gone. Not sure how you can do that.
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My 2y old granddaughter just lost her dad in a shooting. She is well advanced for a 2y old, very good vocabulary. How can I help her, when she repeatedly tells everyone, My daddy got shot. Where is my daddy?
I am sorry jules for your loss. It must be difficult to find a way to comfort your grand-daughter. Welcome to Psych Central.

One of the books and a movie are "Charlotte's Web". Very sad. you can find other books here

Top 10 children's books on death and bereavement | Children's books | The Guardian

64 Children's Books About Death and Grief - What's Your Grief

Books Explaining Death and Grief for Children

My personal favorite for people of all ages is The Next Place
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Old Nov 29, 2018, 08:24 AM
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Jules, Our thoughts and prayers to you.
Similar deal here for us. Our 7 YO grandson lost his uncle to suicide.
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