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Dec 09, 2007, 03:55 AM
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I found out on Friday that A WEEK AGO my "baby" was put down. My family didn't have the decency to tell me before this... I'm devastated. He was my life. He was my joy. He was the only one in my family to love me unconditionally, and the only reason I felt I could survive the Christmas holidays with my family.
It just isn't fair. He was around 14 years old - but he was too young to die. I need him. My heart now has another hole in it. Why is life so mean to me... losing a cat, an aunt, my grandfather not even 2? weeks ago and now my dog - all in one year.   I love you Buster. You are my baby. You are the light of my life, my joy and the only one to love me unconditionally and to listen to me no matter what. I'm so sorry I didn't get to say goodbye. I'm sorry you were suffering at the end - I'm sorry I wasn't a better owner and sister to you. I love you, I miss you. You'll never be forgotten or replaced in my heart.  edit: Picture of Buster (and Zipper, who passed away a few months ago) in the gallery.
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Dec 09, 2007, 09:33 AM
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((((((((((((((Christina)))))))))))
I'm so sorry to hear about Buster... Gee you are sure having trouble catching a break here aren't you  And as for your family... maybe they just wanted to delay telling you because of everything else that has happened? They knew how close you were with him, and wanted to try and let everything else settle a little more before telling you? Either way though, I know how frustrating it can be to not have your family keep you in the loop, especially with important things like this. Hang in there buddy ... lots of love xoxo Jacq
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Dec 09, 2007, 02:51 PM
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((((canders)))) I'm so sorry you heart is torn like this. I totally understand. The 7th was my Figaro's birth date, he would have been 16. Yes, I had to put him down on Jan 6th of this year... but I still miss him so much!
 He was my life, too. ((((((((((((((((((((((((canders)))))))))))))))))))))))))))))0
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Dec 09, 2007, 03:27 PM
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OK, I'm going to cry too.
I'm so sorry for the loss of your dear Buster. Dogs and cats love us unconditionally. Have you heard the one, "Please make me the person my dog thinks I am."? Love, EJ
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Dec 09, 2007, 04:23 PM
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(((Christina)))
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Dec 09, 2007, 08:51 PM
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(((((canders)))))) so, so sorry.
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Dec 11, 2007, 10:56 AM
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(((((((((((Jacq, Sky, EJ, Clyde, wickedwings))))))))))))))
Thank you all so much. It is appreciated. I still miss my baby. I wish the tears would stop. But they won't... and I know it.
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Dec 15, 2007, 02:24 AM
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((((((((((canders)))))))))) our baby kitten, only ten weeks died last night & our dog Tigger (16) is being put down on Monday why does it ALWAYS happen in December ????
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Dec 16, 2007, 08:44 PM
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canders...i'm so sorry about buster and zorah...i am sorry about your kitten and i will pray that tomorrow will not be too difficullt.....i'm so sorry
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Dec 16, 2007, 10:26 PM
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I'm so sorry!
I can really relate to how you feel- when I was 13, my iguana saved my life. I had her because no one else wanted her, she was soley my responsibility, I felt we were both in the same position- if either of us died, no one would care. So I stayed alive to take care of her, and her life saved mine... Now, I also have two dogs. I love them to death, although my family loves them too, so when I'm feeling down, I don't look to them as a life line, as I do my iguana. I'm so sorry for your lost, I don't know what I would do if any of my babies where to pass on. ~*~Sending love and strength your way ~*~ Bella |
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Dec 16, 2007, 10:44 PM
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((((((((((((Zorah)))))))))))))))
(((((((((Butterflylady))))))))))))) (((((((((((Bella)))))))))))))) Thank you all very much.
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