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Old Sep 19, 2004, 07:48 PM
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I just got a call that one of my best friends was killed in a car accident. He was only 24. I'm alone, away at school right now. And I'm SO, SO sad. My friend I wish there was someone here to hold me.

Angela
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Old Sep 19, 2004, 07:56 PM
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I'm so sorry, Sweet. been there just 2 weeks ago.

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Old Sep 19, 2004, 07:58 PM
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Thanks so much. My heart is just sick. My friend I can't stop bawling
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Old Sep 19, 2004, 08:12 PM
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I'm so very sorry hun ((((((((((((((((((((Angela))))))))))))))))))))
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Old Sep 19, 2004, 09:35 PM
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I am so sorry Sweet, we are virtually holding you. Crying is good. Don't make yourself stop.
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Old Sep 20, 2004, 09:12 AM
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((((((((((((((((((((sweet))))))))))))))))))))

I am holding you. Wish I could be there in 3 D

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Old Sep 20, 2004, 09:29 AM
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thanks you guys. i'm so glad i have you. this is so hard. My friend
keep the hugs coming please...

Angela
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Old Sep 21, 2004, 12:26 AM
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I am so sorry for your loss -- such a young life, so unexpectedly, tragic.

((((((((SweetCrusader)))))))))
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Old Sep 21, 2004, 01:09 AM
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thanks so much for your caring (((((wants2fly))))))

i can't believe it. it is SUCH a shock. My friend

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Old Sep 21, 2004, 10:42 AM
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(((((Angela)))))
I am so sorry for your loss. You are in my thoughts.

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Old Sep 22, 2004, 07:31 AM
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i am happy 2 b here 4 u! my best friend has just commited suicide and then my ova mate who is 19 was killed in a hit and run where i live so if u eva need 2 tlk i am here!!!!
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Old Sep 25, 2004, 01:04 AM
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Thanks guys! I just got back into town. The funeral was yesterday My friend

I appreciate your support so much!!!

((((((everyone))))))

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Old Sep 25, 2004, 02:59 PM
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I hope you will do something nice for yourself -- a walk in the park, smiling at squirrels, sitting near a fountain. Eating chocolate. Whatever will make you smile, even for a fraction of a second.
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Old Sep 25, 2004, 03:19 PM
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Wow, Thanks wants2fly for posting to me again!! It continues to be pretty hard to deal with this, of course, and I need all the love and support I can get. My friend I had a piece of chocolate in my mouth as I read your post! My friend Rapunzel and I know eachother in 3d, and she mailed me some goodies! Just got it today! Isn't she the best?

The funeral was hard, because Jon (friend) and I had mutual friends at one time who now hate me. My friend They were there. Some of them feigned friendship for the sake of being peaceful at the funeral. But one of them was really rude to me, right at the graveside. Another friend of Jon's came up and took my hand and whispered in my ear "Angela, no matter what anyone else ever had to say about you, Jon always knew the truth." I know that's true. It just made me miss him more My friend But it was definitely what I needed to hear to get me through that graveside service.

Thanks for listening.

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Old Sep 27, 2004, 06:00 PM
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