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May 19, 2008 at 11:25 AM
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 I don't know why today but I miss my little brother. I didn't know his name. He wasn't even half a year old when he was killed. I wonder if the police even came looking for him when he died, if anyone else knew he died, if they even realized he existed in the first place or if he was just another forgotten child like me. I never got to be a big brother, the only memory I have of him is his death  I almost want to name him so it feels like he belonged more, no one deserved his fate. I wonder if he even had a name, if my dad cared enough to name him. So I'll just call him little brother. Crying today, I don't know why I miss him so much today. And know I'll never know your name, and never know who you could have grown up to be. And I can't stop crying. I never cry. But I'll have to go through, pretending to be happy, pretending I'm okay, when I miss the little brother I never got to truly know.   
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May 19, 2008 at 03:47 PM
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(((griffe)))))))))
name if you need to all of us at pc are here for you any loss is a loss its *ok* to not be *ok* cry all you need too muffy |
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May 19, 2008 at 05:10 PM
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<font color="purple">(((((Griffe & Little Brother))))
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May 19, 2008 at 07:26 PM
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 I am so saddened by your loss. It's ok to cry & grieve, I think it may even help you. I'll remember you & your brother in my prayers. Sending you kind thoughts & gentle hugs Griffe. XOXO
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May 19, 2008 at 07:35 PM
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((((((((((((( Griffe and little brother ))))))))))))))
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May 20, 2008 at 06:55 AM
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Still crying today. I'll probably run out of tears He doesn't have a grave, he doesn't have a name. Didn't have a childhood.
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May 20, 2008 at 11:38 AM
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Awww, I'm sorry to hear about the loss of Little Brother ;[
Name him, Griffe, so even in your memories you're his big brother. Hug a pillow. <font color="purple">Clandestine</font> |
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May 20, 2008 at 11:31 PM
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That is so sad. I think you should name him, too. It would give him an identity, one that he has not had for so long. He has a right to that, too and I think it would be very special if you gave it to him.
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May 21, 2008 at 11:03 AM
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hun i am hear i have lost a brother to
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May 22, 2008 at 12:06 PM
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Last night I named him Lapin.
It's the French word for Rabbit. The Rabbit is a symbol of new life, and new adventure. The short life he had was pained, and I like to think in his next life, he will be happy. This new life is represented by the Rabbit. I hope this can help me move on ((((( Lapin )))))
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May 22, 2008 at 12:44 PM
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I think you have done good Griffe
awww nice name his next life he is happy I am sure he knows you care and love him as he does you muffy |
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May 22, 2008 at 03:51 PM
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<font color="purple">Lapin is such a cute name
I'm sure he will be happy in his next life, who knows, maybe it has already begun... </font> |
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May 24, 2008 at 05:28 PM
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poor little guy
__________________ Do not stand at my grave and weep; I am not there. I do not sleep. I am a thousand winds that blow. I am the diamond glints on snow. I am the sunlight on ripened grain. I am the gentle autumn's rain. When you awaken in the morning's hush, I am the swift uplifting rush of quiet birds in circled flight. I am the soft stars that shine at night. Do not stand at my grave and cry; I am not there, I did not die. R.I.P. Bandit 7-12-08 I love you I miss you. |
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