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May 28, 2008, 10:40 PM
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Someone I know died today. He lives about 5 minutes by walking away from me. He was only in his 40's and he had a stroke the other day, and died today. In my neighborhood, everyone knows everyone else. So when someone dies, it hurts the whole community.
I am crying so much right now. I have been for about 2 and a half hours. I am not good at dealing with death at all. I am worried about his daughter. She is only a freshman in high school, and now she doesn't have a dad anymore. This is just like my best friend Cassidy who lost her dad in December. I knew him so so well, and I still cry about him. 
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May 28, 2008, 11:10 PM
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Ouch. Are you a friend of his daughter so you can be a support to her? Your neighborhood sounds like a nice place to be especially in these circumstances.
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May 29, 2008, 10:22 AM
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manda I am so sorry hon. death is never easy. (((hugs)))
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May 29, 2008, 11:00 AM
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You have an especially warm soul Manda Buddy.
Hold Dev close as time permits >>. then You will too Feel the Grace of Care ,,, as you share . Sudden loss leaves many so numb . But strengthens our ability to lead on . Dry your eyes now my friend . 
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May 29, 2008, 12:00 PM
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***hugs mandy***
i love you im always here akay. if u need to talk to anyone im here. its a sad thing to experience, i know that. but im sure that the girl can get support from people and so can you. its not nice to die that young i know. xxx
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May 29, 2008, 01:34 PM
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((((((((((((((((mandazzle)))))))))))))))))
Just goes to show what alovely, caring soul you are. Death is hard to deal with at any time, but especially with people you know, or a friends parent because you are crying for them too. gentle hugs, take care and just be there for your friend and cry as much as you need to. Crying help release the grief. Jinny xoxoxoxoxoxoxo  
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#7
May 29, 2008, 02:04 PM
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Crying is a wonderful relief (((((((((((((((((((((manda)))))))))))))))))))))
My thoughts go out to you and your neighborhood and his family. sabby |
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#8
May 29, 2008, 02:58 PM
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I'm sorry for your loss.
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#9
May 29, 2008, 06:48 PM
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((((Mandazzle)))) I am here if you wanna talk.
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#10
May 30, 2008, 04:25 PM
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mandazzle,
may solace visit quickly! you are a very special person. so sorry you have this on your plate. peace and love, night
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Jul 13, 2008, 06:17 PM
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Wee will cry together.
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