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Old Jul 28, 2008, 06:27 PM
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lifetime best girfriend was killed in a car accident last night. She was like a 2nd daughter.

My daughter is a mess as are the rest of us. It's as if her soul mate was just ripped away from her. They were planning to move out together in a few months. They traveled together. They were best friends, and now she's gone.

I'm still in shock myself. It could just as easily been my daughter. It is so painful. I feel physically sick.
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Old Jul 28, 2008, 06:38 PM
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((((((((okiedokie )))))))))))))))))))))))))))))))))
I am so sorry for your loss
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My thoughts are with you at this very hard time
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Old Jul 28, 2008, 06:43 PM
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Thank you Muffy. I'm still in shock, I think.
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Old Jul 28, 2008, 07:57 PM
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I am so sorry for your loss. such a shame when we lose our kids. (((hugs)))
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Old Jul 28, 2008, 08:00 PM
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I will keep you in my prayers.
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Old Jul 28, 2008, 08:07 PM
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I am so sorry. It just rips my hear out when young lives are lost. I can not even fathom what you and your daughter or the young ladies family is going through. I am just so sorry.

Take care of yourself and your daughter. Give her lots of hugs you'll both need it.
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Old Jul 28, 2008, 11:56 PM
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Thank you.

I actually feel so badly, I may die. Is it possible to die from grief?

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Old Jul 29, 2008, 01:18 AM
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i cant comfort people when it comes to grief...but im very sorry it happened. My 22 y.o. daughter's *hugs*
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Old Jul 29, 2008, 09:26 AM
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Awww, no I don't think you'll die of grief. When my father died I cried in the fetal position for at least a week. Grieving takes a while, you'll be okay.

On the other hand I do think that when an older couple losses their life long partner they will die of a broken heart. It happened to my Aunts grandparents they were in their late 80's early 90's. They passed within two months of each other.

But no that is not your situation you will be okay and you must be strong for your daughter and her friends mother.

Take care.
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Old Jul 29, 2008, 11:16 AM
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((((((okiedokie and daughter)))))

I'm so sorry for your loss, I am here if you want to talk.
You and your family are in my thoughts.
Gentle hugs for you My 22 y.o. daughter's My 22 y.o. daughter's
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Old Jul 29, 2008, 09:57 PM
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So sorry to hear, my dear My 22 y.o. daughter's
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Old Aug 02, 2008, 01:27 PM
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Tomorrow is the funeral. I am so tired and so sad. I think will take a box of Kleenex with me, as all I will do all afternoon is cry.
My 22 y.o. daughter's My 22 y.o. daughter's My 22 y.o. daughter's
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Old Aug 02, 2008, 01:34 PM
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What horribly sad news, okie. I am so sorry for this tragedy. How is your daughter doing?
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Okie,

That is a tragic loss. I'm sorry. My 22 y.o. daughter's

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