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Sep 23, 2008, 12:04 PM
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Where are the tears,
aren't there supposed to be tears. what is there we do not want to be there feel guilty, ashamed. beadlady29 |
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Sep 23, 2008, 12:31 PM
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There aren't always tears.
Whatever you feel, is what you feel. Don't feel guilty, and don't try to force yourself to feel anything different.
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Sep 23, 2008, 01:16 PM
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(((((((((((((( beadlady )))))))))))))))
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Sep 25, 2008, 03:12 PM
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Quote:
thank u so much for your post. you hit the nail on the head because we feel so guilty for what we are feeling. and have, indeed been trying to change how we feel. they are so hard to accept because they go against our usual nature in a major way. we have bben trying to distract ourself form our feelings since we first read your post because we are avoiding allowing ourself to feel any way we can. losing tiem also - prolly doing all this switching for the same reason i would imagine. at any rate, it sure does help to know that you are out there understanding exactly where we are at. take care beadlady29 |
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Sep 25, 2008, 03:15 PM
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Sep 25, 2008, 04:26 PM
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Beadlady.. allow yourself to feel whatever it is you feel.. it's a lot healthier for you.
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Sep 25, 2008, 09:48 PM
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As it has been said already, there aren't always tears. Sometimes they just aren't visible.
Since you are dealing with coming to terms with this on more than one level, it may take a bit for the realization to sink in and any actual physical mourning to take place. Eveyone mourns/responds in their own way. Sometimes it takes years. It will occur when you're ready. 
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#8
Sep 26, 2008, 02:30 AM
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reddevil!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!?????????????
.....mabye tihs is y bead have so mayn health issues........never allows hersefl to go there.......AFRIAD...........hutreds 2 bad ? WOW...........tihs is a tuff oen..........nevre thukned in terms tehese be4 Even wiht tihs in midn, we r still nubm......mabye bead heart is codl as iec. bead ((((((((((reddevil))))))))))))))ty |
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#9
Sep 26, 2008, 02:36 AM
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Sky.............................kiek we aer thiknign taht sicne we do not thikn we watn to deal wiht these feeligns, is maen we r not raedy to.
empty........yet full to teh brim baed ty |
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