 |
| FAQ/Help |
| Calendar |
| Search |
|
#1
Dec 08, 2004, 05:20 AM
|
|||
|
|||
|
i hate the holidays already. Mom's dead, my aunt's dead...what is there to celebrate this year? I miss them so damn much! I wish I was with them or something...I want them back, especially my mom. She was such a good person and I don't think the pain will ever go away.
__________________
"When they discover the center of the universe, a lot of people will be disappointed to discover they are not it." -Bernard Bailey |
|
#2
Dec 09, 2004, 08:09 AM
|
||||
|
||||
|
(((((((((((Lexicon)))))))))))
I am so sorry for your losses  This is my 2nd Christmas without my Mom (she passed away Dec 27/02)...not a day goes by that I don't think of her....somedays the pain is just as bad now as it was then. It never goes away but I find that talking to her as I can feel her with me does help some. I understand how you feel. I also lost several members of my family this year and my son's great grandmother a couple of days ago...it's tough and my heart goes out to you too. Know that you are not alone in your grief and we are all here for you.
__________________
Hugs Heather The secret of abundance is to stop focusing on what you do not have, and shift your consciousness to an appreciation for all that you are and all that you do have. ~~Dr. Wayne Dyer |
|
#3
Dec 14, 2004, 09:10 PM
|
|||
|
|||
|
This is also our first year with out our Mom and my husband's Dad - both lost within a couple months of each other. It was a very strange Thanksgiving without "nana" at the table and Christmas will be worse. We all feel for you as we experience our losses together.
__________________
Let there be peace on earth and let it begin with me - Maya |
|
#4
Dec 23, 2004, 01:57 PM
|
||||
|
||||
|
This is my first christmas without my mom,she died january 19th of non hodgkins lymphoma.It hurts so much I can almost taste it.I had thought I was a disapointment to her because of my disease, but while she could still speak before she died ,she told me i was the jewel in her crown .That has been a great comfort.
|
|
#5
Dec 24, 2004, 12:08 AM
|
||||
|
||||
|
(((((((Lexicon, Mars, Heather & Bethsblues))))))...
I understand. Today is my deceased Mom's birthday; I am able to observe it without sadness now = well, I should say that after 10 years, 'it' doesn't punch me in the gut anymore, so, as Ozzie said, the grief does seem to lesson with enough time, (and everyone is different on how much time is 'enough'). Sending you all positive thoughts...
__________________
|
|
#6
Dec 24, 2004, 08:38 AM
|
||||
|
||||
|
(((((((((((((Jill))))))))))))))
Sending you hugs and special thoughts today.
__________________
Hugs Heather The secret of abundance is to stop focusing on what you do not have, and shift your consciousness to an appreciation for all that you are and all that you do have. ~~Dr. Wayne Dyer |
|
#7
Dec 24, 2004, 11:56 AM
|
||||
|
||||
|
((((((((((((Jill, Heather, Lexicon, All))))))))))))
__________________
|
| Reply |
This is an old thread. You probably should not post your reply to it, as the original poster is unlikely to see it.|
|
Similar Threads
|
||||
| Thread | Forum | |||
| I'm unable to be a teenager , the life isn't me, this life isn't me.... | Other Mental Health Discussion | |||
| I WANT A TEENAGER LIFE,...I WANT A LIFE!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!! !!!!! | Other Mental Health Discussion | |||
| In my next life, I... | Other Mental Health Discussion | |||
| How is life? | General Social Chat | |||
| Depression Affects Sex Life Terribly, i believe depression destroys sex life | Depression | |||
My Support Forums is the online community that was originally begun as the Psych Central Forums in 2001. It now runs as an independent self-help support group community for mental health, personality, and psychological issues and is overseen by a group of dedicated, caring volunteers from around the world.
Linear Mode
