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Jan 21, 2009, 06:47 PM
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My supportive living person that see me weekly, mother has died. She talked about it in the last few weeks and she knew she would not live much longer. She was fighting cancer for 2 years and was in a nursing home. I found out because she was suppose to meet with me today and did not show up. I can go without her for some time, but i feel so bad about her mother. I feel so hurt, almost like it is my mother, but i never meet her. How do i deal with her loss? It hurts me so bad...
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Jan 21, 2009, 09:29 PM
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 Do the best you can. Keep the truth there for yourself, this is about your SLPs mom, not yours. However, some of your sadness could be from your "knowing" that you, too, will probably lose your mom one day. Think about what you would like to do and say with her now, before it's too late. Listen to the conversations your SLP and you have, and see if she has any regrets or affirmations of what she did or didn't say or do. I think you're already doing some of this.
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Jan 21, 2009, 09:41 PM
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You must be close to your SLP. I know that sometimes I hurt when a friend loses their loved one. For me expressing my feelings for my friends/SLP loss, honor's my feelings and theirs. I like to write a letter or buy just the right card. Its been my experience that people really appreciate others reaching out to them during a time of loss. You know what to do.
Sincerely, Agape4us (Dash)
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Update: Living without any medications after 16 years do to mindfulness meditation and mindful psychotherapy. (Previously given many wrong diagnosis.) Currently in mindful psychotherapy. Pursuing neuro feedback to increase functioning of right side of the brain, as trauma causes deficits in the brain. Will update when I know the results!!! Keep on researching to increase healing and happiness. Buddhism is my path. 
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Feb 02, 2009, 11:18 PM
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I thought i was over this, but i seen my slp today for 30 minutes and went for a drive and i asked her her mothers name. Anyway she appears to be over it, but it kind of hit me again. I am trying to find the obiturary online to get closure(for me). But i cant find anything. What do i do, i need to know that she really passed. I dont know what is wrong with me that i want to know, but it hurts me because i need to know... please help me. Her name is Arlene Faron, from Hopewell, PA or Bedford county. She was 59 yrs
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Feb 03, 2009, 12:25 AM
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Feb 03, 2009, 09:22 PM
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how did you find that? wish there was more. would like to see her family mentioned among other things.. helpful, but still need more. |
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Feb 03, 2009, 09:41 PM
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