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Old Mar 28, 2009, 05:30 PM
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I pray your pain has now been quelled
I pray I have the strength to support
You left us last night with nary a word
Too many questions and no retort heard

The selfishness of your behavior reins
The sadness that you never regained
The hope and positive thoughts we gave
You took away your chance to see

You'll never know what could have been
Had you hung on tightly to your soulmate
The love you both shared could never end
Life always twists and turns my friend

With mixed emotions, sadness and anger
I say farewell with tear filled eyes
A piece of my heart has withered away
The place where you had come to stay............

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For you Gary.....my daughters soulmate. We will miss you and your sense of humor. We will greatly miss hearing you play your guitar. We will miss how you and Larz used to play...it was always such fun watching the two of you. He loved you so very much. How the hell are we supposed to tell that little boy??????????????? How am I supposed to help my daughter through this...you are her best friend!!!! Damn you Gary Damn YOU!!!

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Old Mar 28, 2009, 05:38 PM
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Old Mar 28, 2009, 05:45 PM
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(((((((((((( Kaika ))))))))))))

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Old Mar 28, 2009, 09:57 PM
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.....................................................so much more undo pain ,,,, Hope You can Be strong for those that will be Leaning on You _sabby_.

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Old Mar 28, 2009, 10:26 PM
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Thank you....I'm trying hard to be strong. How are you holding up these days?


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Old Mar 28, 2009, 10:41 PM
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Old Mar 28, 2009, 10:52 PM
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Old Mar 29, 2009, 04:31 AM
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(((((((((((((((((sabby & family)))))))))))))))

I'm sorry. When people leave us like that, we're left dealing with the broken pieces. It sucks.

I'll say a prayer for your family and even one for Gary.
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Old Mar 29, 2009, 06:45 AM
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((sabby and family)))))))) no words to fix it
just know we all care and you matter
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Old Mar 29, 2009, 07:59 PM
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thoughts and prayers with you all

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Old Mar 30, 2009, 10:51 AM
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My thoughts and prayers to you and yours through your grief...



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Old Mar 30, 2009, 03:40 PM
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Gary's service is tomorrow morning at 10am.

My poor grandson made a comment at school today that he should change his name to Dr. Death because everyone around him is dying. I called him this afternoon and spoke to him and tried to re-assure him that he has nothing to do with how life and death works......he understood and gave me the example that every minute in the world someone is dying. I agreed with him and expanded by saying....and while we are loosing people there are also babies being born every minute around the world as well. He said, "so it's a cycle" and I said you got it sweetheart!!! Then, he asked if he could go back to playing his PS2 LOL. God Love him.....and keep him in your loving arms!


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Old Mar 30, 2009, 05:15 PM
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Perspective is >>>>>... playing his PS2 LOL. God Love him.....and keep him in your loving arms!

,, Well sab ,,, Looks like that works ...

Take Care .
{{{{{~ _sabby_~}}}}}

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Old Apr 01, 2009, 11:33 AM
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OMG, Sabby. Will it ever end?? I am SO SORRY! Feeling your feelings right along with you, Hon, for what it's worth.

Holding you and your family up in prayer.

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Old Apr 01, 2009, 08:37 PM
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Well, today was the services for Gary. My beautiful grandson Larz wanted to go, so he came with me. We sat with my 2 daughters and Larz was attached to my hip. He was hugging me like mad and all of a sudden just started crying. I had told him before we went into the church that he was under no obligation to stay for the service if he felt too upset. So he took his grammie up on that idea and asked if it was ok to leave.

So of course grammie said yes and off we went. He mentioned being hungry at least 3 or 4 times and I knew what that meant LOL. Since it was only a little after 10am, I decided to pull into McDonalds' so he could have some breakfast....that put a smile on his face

So I didn't get to stay for the service....and that's ok. I've already had my say to him in prayer and thoughts. He knows how I feel.....he knows I will miss him and he knows that I'm mad at him but will always love him.

I do hope and pray we have some peace soon......I don't know how much more this family can take.

Thank you one and all for your love and support. It means the world to me.

Love always,
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Old Apr 11, 2009, 01:35 PM
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(((Sabby))) Always thinking of you all
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Old Apr 11, 2009, 01:41 PM
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Awwww thank you so much (((((((( Clyde )))))))))) it's nice to know we're thought of by you. Hope you are doing well!


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