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May 04, 2009, 09:38 PM
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April Monday 20th my 42 year old brother died. On Monday Arpil a 46 year old girl friend was found dead in bed. Them yesterday Saturday Msy 2nd my sister-in-laws twin brother who I use to date and had a great friendship with took his own life. When enough enough. At this point I am afraid to ask who next. I am still very traumatized from my brothers funeral that I can mentally go though this again,but also do not want to do do something i will regret.
The thing is at this point it will damage me further. I wo;; attempt the viewing but not dure I can make it through thst.nI hjope no one thinkskessof ke. It is not s cop pit id it the deoression snf OTSD that has me in succh a bad wat,allthis one sleeping id\s clouding my judghement.
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May 04, 2009, 10:16 PM
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 I am so sorry. It must be incredibly overwhelming. Be good to yourself and allow yourself to grieve. (( HUGS ))
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May 05, 2009, 01:31 AM
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((( Tmac )))
I am so very sorry to hear of all your recent loss. It's hard enough when we lose loved ones, but when deaths come so close together it's just excruciating. Don't pressure yourself to go to the viewing if you're feeling you can't. Funerals, wakes, etc are rituals for the living. It brings peace to some but not to all. It's a personal choice that no one can make except you. My father's funeral (he was 42) and both my brothers' funerals (one was 38, the other 42) all traumatized me. You must put your own well-being first. Trust me, I did not and I paid the price. Please take care of you. I understand the overwhelming amount of grief you're dealing with. I too have been going through a rough time. I lost my Mom in January, my favorite aunt in March, and my cousin (her son) 8 days later in April. Last week an in-law took her own life. She was only 45. I too wonder how much more a person/family can take. Keep posting if you need too. I'll try to help if I can. People do care Tmac.
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#4
May 05, 2009, 07:03 AM
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Oh tmac, I am so sorry. I will be praying for you.
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May 05, 2009, 07:13 AM
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((T mac)))))))))))) I am so very sorry for your losses
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May 05, 2009, 07:20 AM
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oh hon I am so sorry. I know it is so hard to have so many back to back such as this. I have been thru that too. 3 yrs ago I lost 3 close people within a month. then like 3 more by the end of the year. hang on to us here hon. together we can make it.
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May 05, 2009, 06:52 PM
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#8
May 06, 2009, 01:26 AM
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(((((((((((((Tmac))))))))))))))) you can do it
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