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Old May 21, 2005, 08:30 PM
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Need to get a job here soon. Hard not working and trying to get through this nightmare of a divorce. I hope this surgery helps May26th. My son is going to be there which I am grateful. It is hard signing your life away like you do when you have surgery like this. I am scared.

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Old May 21, 2005, 08:46 PM
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Surgery is scary. Wishing you all the best! After the surgery you will continue to put your life back together... there is plenty of it after divorce! ((((hugs))))
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Old May 21, 2005, 09:57 PM
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Leslie,

I've been under a rock as I haven't been aware of this surgery coming up like this. I am very hopeful for you.

It makes total sense to be scared in this kind of situation. My goodness! Who wouldn't be?!

Your heart is getting physical repairs so you can do the emotional ones as you heal. Didn't _Sky say something to that effect above?

I will be eagerly awaiting good news of your recovery post surgical. Until then spill out any fears here. There's a good group of shoulders here offered up. Lean or cry on 'em.

with compassion for you and in awe of your courage,
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Old May 21, 2005, 10:11 PM
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leslie, much, much love coming your way. keep us posted on how you're doing..i'll send "air cookies" to you for your recovery..xoxo pat
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Old May 21, 2005, 11:22 PM
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((((((((((((((((roomies))))))))))))))))))

Thanks so much for your replies. Life has got to get better than this. Why two things at once?? Divorce and surgery, too much to handle.

Leslie
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Old May 22, 2005, 10:59 AM
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Leslie, you have soooooo much going for ya,
1 your son is going to be the man of your family to get you through your surgery
2 Your divorce, your getting rid of baggage you don't need
3 Your getting a new lease on life with this surgery
all these a blessings that you deserve
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Old May 22, 2005, 11:11 AM
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(((((((((((((((Leslie)))))))))))))))))

I'm sorry you are having such a hard time. I think you should focus on the surgery first then after you get your physical strenght back you will be more able to deal with the rest. I'm telling you this but you probably already know that stress is a majoy factor in heart attack. So my dear friend, try to put yourself in a calm environment for now. Your surgery goes first.

We care for you and we are here to listen and support you with what you are going through.

((((((((((((((Leslie))))))))))))))

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((((((((((((((((((( Leslie ))))))))))))))))))))))))

I hope it goes well. I'm thinking good wishes for you.
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Old May 22, 2005, 05:09 PM
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Sending you many prayers for a speedy recovery Leslie. Keep us posted ok?

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Old May 25, 2005, 02:45 PM
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Thanks for taking the time to care and for keeping me in your thoughts. I will let you all know how I am doing when I come home after surgery.

Love,
Leslie
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i'll send up prayers for you.......
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Old May 25, 2005, 08:51 PM
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{{{{{{{{{{{{{Leslie}}}}}}}}}}}}}}} You certainly have very good reason to be scared. What if you think of what you'll be gaining instead? Would that help ease the tension you're feeling?

Prayers going up for you. heart surgery
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Old May 26, 2005, 10:19 AM
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Leslie special prayers go out to you today this surgery will be succesful
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Old May 26, 2005, 10:29 AM
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You are in my thoughts and prayers Leslie. I have been in my cave and I'm sorry I didn't see this before
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