[QueenBee777]

Im a HPD and i was wondering, why music triggers me...its werid and pschopaths, idk why I love them!!!

[OtherHPD]

Originally Posted by QueenBee777

Im a HPD and i was wondering, why music triggers me...its werid and pschopaths, idk why I love them!!!

Music is the soundtrack of your life, everything you have ever done can be assoicated to a song or six I'll bet. Works the same with me. Kinda fun when I know what to listen to for a desired mood

[QueenBee777]

someone who understands

[OtherHPD]

Originally Posted by QueenBee777

someone who understands

Well, that is one thing about us HPD's, we do have a pretty good understanding of each other

[honeybee777]

Im also a HPD with aspd features, and thers not to much on this subject, or personality disoder, I need help with this , i got to counceling and like queenbee music set me off top, as well as men with aspd and bpd, its like they can realte to me, especailly having the aspd featuers, any thought? OtherHPD?

[OtherHPD]

Oh I have lots of thoughts! You know how it is, mind racing ALL THE TIME!

[summeryoga]

Music also triggers me ... often in a bad way (as in, I feel extremely sexual with a lot of music, which can get me into trouble - Trent Reznor, Depeche Mode remixes, anything remotely industrial, dance or trip hop), but sometimes just in an emotional way.

Here's my theory: We HPD's are impressionistic and can be influenced by the feelings of those around us. Music is so sensual and emotional. Sensuality + emotionality (i.e. music) = HPD trigger

God, it's comforting to hear the three of you and know that someone in the world kinda gets it.

[honeybee777]

lets all listen to trent reznor and be triggered togther jk hahahaha
Actually i had another question, is anyone here physically attracted to really bad people, ive always loved the villain....idk why but always fall for the villain type..anyone else here like that?

[summeryoga]

Originally Posted by honeybee777

lets all listen to trent reznor and be triggered togther jk hahahaha
Actually i had another question, is anyone here physically attracted to really bad people, ive always loved the villain....idk why but always fall for the villain type..anyone else here like that?

For me, not the villain so much as the 'bad boy' (maybe that's what you meant, though?). I tend to be attracted to addicts or to guys with a really hard or sad past. I have never been attracted to preppy or religious or conservative or really well-behaved men. Edgy = yummy.

But that makes me think ... do you think you and I and maybe other female histrionics subconsciously like bad boys because they're easier for us to seduce? Not a nice thought, and that's just a thought that's crossing my mind as I type ... but I do wonder. I mean, there's no fun in trying to seduce a man who is happy or 'together' because he might not let himself be seduced by us? And god forbid we get rejected.

For me, there is also this ****ed up care-taking thing where I like nurturing men, helping them feel better, and maybe even trying to 'save' them. My therapist thinks that in part I enjoy the sense of power that might give me. Sigh.

[honeybee777]

Originally Posted by summeryoga

For me, not the villain so much as the 'bad boy' (maybe that's what you meant, though?). I tend to be attracted to addicts or to guys with a really hard or sad past. I have never been attracted to preppy or religious or conservative or really well-behaved men. Edgy = yummy.

But that makes me think ... do you think you and I and maybe other female histrionics subconsciously like bad boys because they're easier for us to seduce? Not a nice thought, and that's just a thought that's crossing my mind as I type ... but I do wonder. I mean, there's no fun in trying to seduce a man who is happy or 'together' because he might not let himself be seduced by us? And god forbid we get rejected.

For me, there is also this ****ed up care-taking thing where I like nurturing men, helping them feel better, and maybe even trying to 'save' them. My therapist thinks that in part I enjoy the sense of power that might give me. Sigh.

well for my because i have aspd features as well, i love the villians, not just bad boy....theri ok, but the real villians, maybe its the villian in me that I can relate to, that same darkness. Seduction is simpley, whether their happy, sad, hard, or villians....but i seem to get a conncection with people who have the same thoughts as me, which again im not a dependent HPD, Im the disinguious HPD, so maybe its from abuse? IDK....

[OtherHPD]

I'm not much on the bad boys lol!
The bad girls though, COUNT ME IN!!!!!

[honeybee777]

see im not alone hahahahahha

[OtherHPD]

That's one of the wonderful things about being HPD; you never are alone

[Pink Mist]

Lol. I think everyone can say music influences their mood. Think about when you go somewhere and you want to get pumped you listen to whatever music gets your heart going. As for the bad boys, I also understand hehe. Who wants a goody two shoe? As long as he knows how to take care of a woman he can be "bad" all he wants. I think they are just more exciting and free willed.

[honeybee777]

woot woot