[Naturefreak]

Yesterday I was on facebook and put in a comment in the what's
on your mind section "if you think you can or you think you can't,
either way you are right" . Late last night I went in and my brother
had a comment '' a word to the wise ain't necessary , its the stupid
ones that need the advice ". I'm not angry , just hurt really bad.
I think the whole world wants to see me suffer. It's not getting any
better its getting worse.

[BiscuitTin]

Originally Posted by Babysteps09

Yesterday I was on facebook and put in a comment in the what's
on your mind section "if you think you can or you think you can't,
either way you are right" . Late last night I went in and my brother
had a comment '' a word to the wise ain't necessary , its the stupid
ones that need the advice ". I'm not angry , just hurt really bad.
I think the whole world wants to see me suffer. It's not getting any
better its getting worse.

What are you hurt about?

I'm looking at what you've written and I don't see anything untoward from your brother.

[Naturefreak]

Originally Posted by BiscuitTin

What are you hurt about?

I'm looking at what you've written and I don't see anything untoward from your brother.

Thanks . I have to talk to my psych about this.
It's like everything seems to be directed at me personally.
Like some kind of conspiracy. It scares me .
I'm taking it as me being the stupid one.

[Junerain]

If I remember correctly, your brother is not AT ALL a supportive person....I could see that you would take this as you being called stupid or something..

...could you remove him from your friend list? A simple removal shows you respect yourself, while not stooping to his level and writing anything mean back, you are not a mean person...a simple removal would be a quiet end to anything MORE happening, which is possible..

I removed my Mom from my friend list. I am at peace with this

I care about you, PM me anytime

[Naturefreak]

Originally Posted by Junerain

If I remember correctly, your brother is not AT ALL a supportive person....I could see that you would take this as you being called stupid or something..

...could you remove him from your friend list? A simple removal shows you respect yourself, while not stooping to his level and writing anything mean back, you are not a mean person...a simple removal would be a quiet end to anything MORE happening, which is possible..

I removed my Mom from my friend list. I am at peace with this

I care about you, PM me anytime

Thanks Junerain for the reply. I appreciate it .
But that's not going to happen . I love my brother very much.
What he said hurts . But I forgive him for it if it was directed at
me in a harsh way. If you removed your Mom from your friend
list I would suggest patching things up with her if possible.
I'm not trying to pry into your life . Just a suggestion.
I need more help with my thoughts more than anything else right now.
Really Really Confused.........
Think I'll just stay away from facebook. Nobody understands me there either.
Have a Good Day I care about you too.

[Naturefreak]

The mood swings go from sad , to lonely , to angry .
I'm in the middle of an angry one right now.
I'm thinking maybe junerain is right . The hell with him , remove him.
For that matter remove the whole lot of them.
And just go hide somewhere in some dark corner and cry.
Who do I listen to ? Who is right ?
I guess I have to figure out what is right for ME.
Maybe I burned too many bridges and need to construct
a new one.
If this is not making any sense to you. FORGIVE ME.

[Malady156]

Babysteps, it sounds to Moriah like you bes "overpersonalizing" these common sayings. It happens to Moriah too, it has this same issue sometimes, feeling like people say those things as a subtle way to try to get in a nasty "dig" at you, yeah? If you have a T it might be good ground to explore with him or her what those sayings suggest to you, why you feel hurt by them, get the real issues out from being stuck buried inside where we tend to shove things when they hurt too much to look at, and work on healing those hurting places. Then when you hear sayings like this (and the world has tons of them!) they won't feel personally aimed at you anymore.

[Naturefreak]

Originally Posted by Malady156

Babysteps, it sounds to Moriah like you bes "overpersonalizing" these common sayings. It happens to Moriah too, it has this same issue sometimes, feeling like people say those things as a subtle way to try to get in a nasty "dig" at you, yeah? If you have a T it might be good ground to explore with him or her what those sayings suggest to you, why you feel hurt by them, get the real issues out from being stuck buried inside where we tend to shove things when they hurt too much to look at, and work on healing those hurting places. Then when you hear sayings like this (and the world has tons of them!) they won't feel personally aimed at you anymore.

Thanks Malady , I'm very happy to hear from you . I hope there are
no hard feelings from what I said the other day. I read things and
come up with a few different ways to look at them . Then I get
angry and say things I don't REALLY mean and regret them later.
I guess people reading this will be cautious to reply to my posts
to avoid any confrontations. That is not my intention . I don't
want to offend or attack or hurt anyone. And by the way ,
my Dad got in contact with my brother because I told him about
this and he says it was not directed at ME personally , but to everyone
in general. Is this a sort or Paranoia? I will ask my T about
overpersonalizing as you said and see if I can get to the root of
this. Not Good!!!! Anyway Thanks for the advice and Take Care

[Malady156]

Anytime. And of course, no hard feelings. Moriah understands sometimes things just rub the wrong way even if we don't intend them to. That bes all it saw going on that time.

[Naturefreak]

Originally Posted by Malady156

Anytime. And of course, no hard feelings. Moriah understands sometimes things just rub the wrong way even if we don't intend them to. That bes all it saw going on that time.

Have a Good Night & Take Care