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Old Jan 26, 2010, 10:58 PM
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my hubby is so close to home tonight but I can't see him til later maybe tomorrow. it stinks knowing he is only 85 miles from me and I can't see him! I think that is the loneliest of lonelies.
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Old Jan 27, 2010, 01:23 AM
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Old Jan 27, 2010, 02:44 AM
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Yeah I hate the last 100 miles or so of a long trip... You can't get home fast enough. I imagine it works the same way when you are waiting for a loved one who's coming home.
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Old Jan 27, 2010, 03:19 AM
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Keep yourself busy and he will be there before you know it.
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Old Jan 27, 2010, 03:20 AM
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I can't bear it when my husband is away from me. I know how you are feeling. Hopefully you will be seeing him by the time you read this. (((bebop)))
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Old Jan 27, 2010, 05:04 AM
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you have a husband. You could be alot more lonely
Thanks for this!
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Old Jan 27, 2010, 09:32 AM
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I didn't get to see him. they turned him around to go right back out. he even went by our exit! was 4 miles from me and I didn't even know it. so now he is on his way to chicago.

basically he has been gone from the house since august last year. he was here for a few days at thanksgiving and then christmas while he was waiting on his trainer.
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Old Jan 27, 2010, 11:17 AM
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Hi Bebop! (psst... it's me-- mandyfins remember your pistachio cake-- St. Patricks day? I'm planning on baking it again this year) I'm back after a long absence...... was re-grouping myself got a new therapist and working on lots of things....

anyway.... I'm sorry you are lonely-- that is a rough feeling.

when my boys where real little my husband was away for 16 months.... was so horrible and lonely..... I understand.... it's like having something but not being able to really have it..... like a starving person sees the food but can't get to it..... an awful feeling.

thinking of you

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Old Jan 27, 2010, 11:22 AM
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Oh.. I almost forgot.... BTW--
Wow!!! you sure acquired yourself a boat load of titles since I've been gone form here!!! way to go!
doesn't surprise me-- you've always been a great helper.

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Old Jan 27, 2010, 06:13 PM
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awe mandy thanks hon and welcome back! did you like that cake? my ex stepdaughter just asked me for that recipe yesterday! she remembered it from a child! sure made me feel good!
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Old Jan 27, 2010, 06:29 PM
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Old Jan 27, 2010, 10:57 PM
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What does your husband do? (if I may ask)
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Old Jan 27, 2010, 11:21 PM
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he is learning to be a truck driver. that is what I use to do btw!
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Old Jan 28, 2010, 11:00 AM
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I hope is able to return home soon hun, I understand how difficult it is to be away from the one you love. Feel free to stop by and pm me anytime

Lots of hugs
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Old Jan 28, 2010, 01:01 PM
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thanks hon. I am ok now. that night just got to me. thanks for the offer!
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Old Jan 31, 2010, 10:42 AM
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awe mandy thanks hon and welcome back! did you like that cake? my ex stepdaughter just asked me for that recipe yesterday! she remembered it from a child! sure made me feel good!
Oh yes! I like that cake VERY much. but then I've always been a cake kinda girl! that's funny how just the day before you gave that very recipe to your ex-stepdaughter--- life can sure be mysterious!

bebop -please take care

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