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Old Sep 23, 2003, 05:20 PM
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Old Sep 23, 2003, 06:18 PM
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Where have you gone, Valbends??? Are you coming back? Can we help? Your wondering/concerned friend, Peanut

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Old Sep 23, 2003, 06:42 PM
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Val??????? way too brief.....like Peanut said, are you ok?

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Old Sep 24, 2003, 03:34 AM
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Old Sep 24, 2003, 12:12 PM
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val, what was this post suppose to mean??
Are you still feeling as down as you have told us here and at chat?
If so, like I have advised you in the past, and often, please get professional help, life is too short to remain miserable if you do not have to, you are young and have your whole life ahead of you, with help (I know from my own experience) you can get through this, believe me it is possible I use to think it would never be possible that I can be happy, and even now I have some rough times but I am here, decided that "checking out" wasn't the answer. I beg you for the last time, PLEASE get professional attention, by getting ours is not as effective as seeing a professional, though you know we are here to support and listen to you If a depression is lasting more than 2-3 weeks they say a person should seek professional help, and you have been feeling like this for months, it sounds like it is time for you to do so, so please do.
Take care of yourself now and realize you have a purpose on this earth, you may not see it now but in time you will, and you just may like it after all

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Old Sep 24, 2003, 03:53 PM
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Old Sep 24, 2003, 07:35 PM
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I'm mean I'm leaving!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!

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Old Sep 24, 2003, 07:39 PM
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Hi Valbends = Are you doing, OK??? Is there some way we can help???? Your friend, Peanut

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Old Sep 24, 2003, 08:47 PM
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Old Sep 24, 2003, 08:51 PM
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Best wishes Val!

Please stop by anytime you like.

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Old Sep 24, 2003, 09:08 PM
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I didn't had the pleasure of meating you but I'm sending you lots of hugs. I think you have a lot of friends in here that loves you very much and that you can trust. Just try to remember that.

((((((((((((((((((((((Valbends))))))))))))) Take good care

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Old Sep 24, 2003, 10:05 PM
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Good luck, Val......take care.

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Old Sep 24, 2003, 10:23 PM
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ok, fine.. have a wonderful life and hope you come back and visit us when you want....

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Old Sep 25, 2003, 05:38 AM
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I'm sorry I upset you and everybody else... I'm not leaving because anyone did anything wrong or because I am mad at anyone. I'm just leaving because I'm tired of screwing around with all of you, I'm not being fair and many have told me that the only thing that *might* help is professionals. no one has answers for me anymore, and i don't blame them, so i thought i'd lift the burden and just leave. look, its not like i really even want to b/c i am going to miss you guys so much... i just don't think be burdening you guys, so i should go now

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Old Sep 25, 2003, 05:42 AM
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Your not a burden. We all care about you because we choose to.

Yes, seeing a professional "might" help and probably will. It's your choice to go or not. It doesn't mean we stop caring.
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There is a time in life when you are given a new chance and new dreams.
There is a time in life when the old is to be forgotten and the new embraced.

There is a time in life......And that time is now.
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Old Sep 25, 2003, 07:08 AM
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Posting here can be a touchstone for you in addition to any professional therapy/advice you may seek out. You're not a burden, really = I think that might be the depression making you feel that way. I hope you won't leave = we would miss you very much. Your friend, Peanut

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Old Sep 25, 2003, 03:11 PM
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You're no burden val, I like talking with you.
Hugs to you,
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Old Sep 25, 2003, 09:14 PM
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ok first off no one is a burden when they need help..
Maybe you should try differnt ways to experss yourlsef, then we could help you.
I do not know you that well. but do not leave. i would hate to see anyone leave unless they truly no longer needed us, or no longer thought it was helpful..
But Val, Please understand we are all in some sort of bad place on a daily basis, so we may say or do things we do not mean, or mean to say..
Keep you head held high, no one will do it for you

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