Sorry~

((((((((((((((((Bethy))))))))))))))))))

Take care of you hun. I agree with everything that Tomi said.

Wuv you

((((((((Tryin))))))))))) You are not a pain!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!
so sorry to hear you are dealing with the cellulitis. I've not had it before but my older sister has. Ever since she had cancer and cemo she can get it even with a hang nail.
Be kind to you!!!!
lrks

TY MP Your a sweetie.Take care yourself ok hon? Ohh btw I love your siggy! He's so cute! You do such a great job on all the siggies around here.

Hugz~
Bethy

Ty Karen~ Hugz are always welcome. I am gonna get to the doc tomorrow. Hopefully I can get some antibiotics to help again. 3 weeks till my surgery now.. at least the sinus part of this will be over with then!

Hugz~
Bethy

Thanks Ben...Hope your doing ok . Take care.

Hugz~
Bethy

here I was sittin , talkin to ,my friend today and Poop Poop A Doo her battery conked out Hi girl
Angie

Awww Wants2 Thanks for your kind words hon.. but the kind of cellulitis I got ... well Greenleaves gave a definition for and 1Day explained too.

Thanks so much for your concern though. Iknow it was with the best of intentions hon.

Hugz~
Bethy

Thank you Time0 ~ Your very kind. I hope to get something for this tomorrow. Thanks for your concern.

Hugz~
Bethy

Thats Right Erin.... Thanks for stepping up and helping explain. Also thanks for the hugz and concern. Mucho appreciated.

Hugz~
Bethy

Thanks Greenleaves for stepping up and getting things clarified. That was very kind of you. ANd thanks for your wishes too. I appreciate it.

Hugz~
Bethy

Awww Dex ~ your so kind and sweet. I just had felt so drained after working so hard this week. And I felt hurt that people who said that they were coming to my open house yesterday never showed up. I had such high hopes. I looked forward to seeing them and talking with them. Not just the selling stuff... I like visiting with people. I like helping them when I can. And I feel bad , stupid, if I have to ask for support or help. Thats sorta why I feel like I was a pain. Thanks Dex. I will be going to the Doc tomorrow . Take care. Hang in there yerself ok?

Hugz~
Bethy

Ok... so tell me it's my lack of meds... but I'm feeling like chopped liver right now...

ohhhh Lordypants I shoulda known you'd write a book Tomi lol. I know your right on all of it ... no fighting you on it...... no arguing nottin honey... And I am not even as long winded as you are to be able to reply to all that there either right now. lol.Thanks for your love and support and the laughs and tears hon.

Hugz~
Bethy

LOL Angie~ I Sawwry... battery's poop out too I can always call you again though! Soon otay? Dont worry Bethy wont leave ya high and dry.

Hugz~
BETHYPOO

LOL Jen How'd I know you'd whistle along singin Tomi's song? LOL You stinker you! Thanks and hugznkissies lolheheehehehheehehehe SORRY I had to do it !

Hugz~
Bethy ohhh thanks! lol

Hey Skylrks~
Sorry to hear about your sister having to deal with this stuff. Its no fun. My thoughts are with her and you as I am sure its hard on you to watch her go thru this. Thanks for your support too. Iappreciate it.

Hugz~
Beth

Awww hon it prolly is your lack of meds. Wish we could find a way for you to get them. Is there a clinic around that you could get to that maybe you could get samples from?Or from your doctor? This is ridiculous that you gotta go without them.

Hugz~
Bethy

Think I got the meds taken care of, but thanks.

I would feel hurt too if people who said they would come didn't show up. But then again I think it is normal for people to say they will come and then not show up... I think sometimes it is because when they say they will come they don't want to hurt your feelings but they don't think through the consequenses.

In any case I always think it is a sign of intelligence and self-respect to ask for help or support when you need it... so I'm glad you posted, that's what this place is for.

Yeah Dex your very experienced at the People saying they will be there and they dont show up thing arent ya hon? lol Geesh tell me to open my mouth and insert my foot ok? LOL.Now I know my stuff is just petty compared to yours. I'm sorry. And your just too cool putting it the way you did about asking for help ya know it? No wonder we love you so much around here! YOUR JUST AN AWSOME GUY!

HUGZ~
Bethy

I know my stuff is just petty compared to yours.

OK... this is an important concept that I adhere to...

I think of it in mathematical terms... when considering the "importance" of happy or sad events, you have to multiply them by a weighing factor to consider how close they are to you. Hearing about the divorce of a coworker, no matter how much you might empathize, will never have as much "impact" in your life as hearing about the divorce of someone in your family.

And carrying that to oneself, NOTHING has greater impact than what is occuring with oneself. I like to describe sympathy as understanding the pain someone else is feeling, empathy as feeling the pain someone else is feeling, but there should be a third word that tops them all which describes things that are actually happening to you.

Things around you may change your world, but things that happen to you have the potential to put you into a different world.

A lot of people find comfort in realizing that other people have worse problems than theirs, and that can be a good thing, but I believe with all of my heart that that should never be used in a negative sense, to feel one is unworthy of support, venting, etc. What is happening TO YOU is the most important thing in the world TO YOU and there is no shame in realizing that.

Here at Psych Central, we can understand the feelings the we have as individuals and how those feelings effect our lives. So everyone is at an "equal level" as our pain is real and valid and isn't judged or weighed by external circumstances.

I had a nice Margarita tonight to help me sleep... I hope this isn't effecting my post or my typing too much... tomorrow I may want to edit the heck out of this post <g>

{{{{Bethy}}}}