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Apr 14, 2011, 11:27 AM
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Some of you might have seen that one of my close friends committed suicide last month. Last night I got a call from another close friend who was in the emergency room because of a near suicide attempt. I emailed our college dean to let her know that my friend is not going to be here and tried to support my friend via phone while she was in the emergency room. However, I have no idea how things turned out. She said she would keep me posted, but she never texted me or called me about what she is doing. I am really worried and I just want to know where and how she is.
And there is so much drama in my dorm. I feel like everyone around me is either being incredibly rude to each other or is having some sort of crisis.
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Issues/Diagnoses: Dysthymia, Generalized Anxiety Disorder, Dissociative Disorder Not Otherwise Specified (DDNOS), bulimia, self-injury Medication: Prozac, ativan "Don't believe everything you think!" |
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Apr 14, 2011, 12:30 PM
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((((((Catlovers141))))))))
I am so, so sorry for your loss of your other friend. It is not easy to lose someone like this and trying to know of another friend that is in trouble as well. She has sought help, which is great, and is in good hands. It is possible she may have been admitted, and is why you have not heard anything because some units do not allow outside contact once in. No news may be good news at this point. It sounds as though she will contact you as soon as she can, given that she called you before she went to or while at the hosp ER. Ignore the others, sometimes they not not what they do. You are a good friend to be there and do all that you are doing. Hang in there and hope for the best. Sending big hugs your way. |
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Apr 14, 2011, 02:24 PM
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Oh dear, I'm so, so sorry about your friend
 And I'm sorry your other friend is having such a hard time. I'm sorry for the pain it puts you in also-- I've been in your position, and its tough and a lot of stress. About your friend in the ER-- if she was there because she was suicidal, the doctors may have put her in the hospital for 72 hours on watch-- and that means no phone calls or texting allowed for her for those 72 hours. So she is most likely just fine and being cared for and taken care of carefully, but because of hospital rules she cannot contact you for 3 days. So please try not to worry-- she is probably all right. Just not able to contact anyone. Please try not to worry. The best thing you can do right now is take care of yourself. Its a lot of stress on you also, so please do what you can to eat right, sleep enough, and de-stress, okay? You're being a good friend-- take care of yourself.
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Apr 14, 2011, 02:56 PM
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I am so sorry for the crisis you are in right now, as I am for the loss of your friend. I have not words of wisdom but I wanted you to know that I will think about you.
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Apr 14, 2011, 03:00 PM
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Many hugs to you ((((((((((((((((Catlovers)))))))))))))))))
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Apr 14, 2011, 03:25 PM
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I hope that you and your friend are okay, Catlovers141, and that the drama subsides in your dorm.
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Apr 14, 2011, 07:14 PM
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You are in my thoughts!
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 Children's talent to endure stems from their ignorance of alternatives. ~ Maya Angelou Thank you SadNEmpty for my avatar and signature.
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Apr 14, 2011, 10:21 PM
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Wow, I'm so sorry to hear about your friend, and all the drama that's been going on in your dorm. I wish you and your other friend the best of luck. You are both in my thoughts. *hugs*
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Apr 15, 2011, 01:39 PM
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Thank you all very much.
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Issues/Diagnoses: Dysthymia, Generalized Anxiety Disorder, Dissociative Disorder Not Otherwise Specified (DDNOS), bulimia, self-injury Medication: Prozac, ativan "Don't believe everything you think!" |
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Apr 15, 2011, 02:48 PM
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(((((((((((((((((((((((((((Catlovers141))))))))))))))))))))))))))))))))
Stay strong, Catlovers! I'm sorry about all the drama and the rough events.
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Apr 15, 2011, 03:53 PM
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Wow, this sound really tough. I'm sorry you are going through this. Thinking of you
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Take a good look at my face You'll see my smile looks out of place If you look closer, it's easy to trace The tracks of my tears.. I need you, need you- Smokey Robinson |
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