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Dec 12, 2005, 05:29 PM
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i need help and i dont know what to do at the moment.
i just got off the phone with my ex boyfriend and he got me pretty mad cuz he got a new gf and was saying how there moving in togehter when there 18 and all this crap. and he said that to me too!!! and how much he loves her...etc...and they just met!! hes a liar and a ter....grrr. Anyways, i was on the phone and approached him about it..and hes like...im not a player!! blah blah blah....and im like..YES U R. hes like no im not!! and then hes like to me, if you tell the police and i get a notice in the mail ill be up on your *** and so will my girl. im like, wtf did u just say to me?? He's like..nothing. im like, you just threatned me. why?? He's like no i didnt, i dont what your talking about!! Later on in the convo hes like...wait till my gf finds out about our talk..im like why matt?? hes like...youll see....im like, are you threatning me? and he laughed like a YES answer. im like sooo scared i dont know what to do now. omg, im afraid to go to my police station and request a restraining order on him cuz he even told me he has friends and his gf who could 'get me'. im just scared and dont know what to do..PLUS--he has a BAD ANGER ISSUE--we met in therapy..great place, right??? heh. this is why i dont go out with any more guys anymore....heh.... HELP!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!! deb
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Dec 12, 2005, 05:32 PM
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I think you should go to the police, tell them what he said, and let them know you're worried that he or his friends will come after you. They might have better advice than just a restraining order, although you should get that, too. The restraining order, if for no other purpose, will show you took action against him, if you're ever in court in the future, and need to prove he was causing problems for you.
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Dec 12, 2005, 05:34 PM
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thank you so much..im going to call my mom right now...pretty puzzled for a sec..
deb
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Dec 12, 2005, 05:40 PM
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Let us know how it goes.
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Dec 12, 2005, 05:46 PM
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This is not a good thing for anyone to be going through. I would get a PFA or something against him, his gf, and anyone else you know that's possibly involved. He's only threatening you because he knows how you are. He probably knows how scared you'll get by his threats and I'm guessing you're too afraid to even go to the police, right? Go to the police anyways because that's what he will not expect.
Just hang in there, stay safe, and take care of yourself. We are all here to support you every step of the way.
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Dec 12, 2005, 05:46 PM
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thank you guys so0o0o much
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Dec 12, 2005, 05:55 PM
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Deb...there is the possibility that this young man is troubled..yes...but I think he is bluffing. Still, keep up your guard, of course. Usually people who go into detail and tell you this and that are just bluffing. He wanted to scare you and it worked. Notice he's not at your door now. I think if he really meant the threat...you would not be on the computer now. I would say to you...try to stay as cool as you can. This way if, perchance, he did pull something..you will have your wits about you. Keep us posted, Kiddo!!
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Dec 12, 2005, 05:57 PM
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i just posted a new thread about how my mom wont call the police....grrr..what do i do now
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Dec 12, 2005, 06:07 PM
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You can call the police yourself. You can do it. Think about this first tho. The police usually can't do a thing unless the offender acts first. It's a shame. In an ideal world...this would not be so. But it is. I think he just wanted to scare the living heck out of you. Can you have your phone number changed? I would. Try to redirect your thinking to something possitive. Take care!
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Dec 12, 2005, 06:08 PM
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thank you so much!!!
take care too! deb
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Dec 12, 2005, 06:09 PM
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Dec 12, 2005, 07:27 PM
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My last boss' name was Matt. He had anger issues. I left after he threw three metal rods at me, and I could tell he wasn't even mad at me, he was just angry. I think your ex-boyfriend was trying to make you feel jealous, threatened and ganged up on. Who knows if he even has a new girl friend. He definitely sounds like he has issues. Anyway, I think you can report the threat to the police. That way it is on record, in case the situation should escalate. It's possible he has done this to other people, and the police may have this on record.
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