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#1
Sep 11, 2011, 09:36 AM
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I haven't shaved for about 3 weeks now and the dishes are in the sink for maybe a week.
As for work I don't struggle to get motivated once I'm there, but I just can't be bothered getting up in time and stuff. I don't know, thoughts? |
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Sep 11, 2011, 04:25 PM
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"Can't be bothered"? You like eating and paying your bills? :-) Since you know you're okay once you get there, I'd just focus on that tomorrow morning, on imagining being there, if you drive, take the "long way" there with good music blasting on the CD player/radio, etc.
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Sep 11, 2011, 04:44 PM
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Working is for suckers. At least that's the message I derive from my coworkers who rarely show up for work, then the day they decide to come back (at mid-afternoon), moan about being overworked. If working and keeping clean are too burdensome, perhaps going on some sort of permanent disability is the answer. Then your job could go to someone who needs the work, and you can focus on regaining your health.
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Sep 11, 2011, 05:25 PM
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Sep 11, 2011, 06:46 PM
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Soooo... what's bothering you? What's on your mind that's sapping your energy and will? There is something if you're not normally like this. Sounds like something is depressing you.
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Sep 11, 2011, 07:13 PM
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Sounds like depression to me. I like the paper plate idea if ya have the energy to take out the trash!
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#7
Sep 11, 2011, 07:46 PM
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Paper plates are good, I'l have to do that.
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#8
Sep 12, 2011, 02:19 AM
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If you don't want to shave, then don't. Although I will say that a friend of mine recently found a tick in his beard.
Once, when I was graduate school, I went through a whole week and didn't dirty a single dish. Now that my friend was a good week. I have also been known to throw out every single dirty dish and buy new ones. Considering the time and effort that I would have had to extend to clean them, it ended up being a bargain. Motivation waxes and wanes. Sometimes you just have to ride it out.
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#9
Sep 12, 2011, 03:34 AM
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I didn't go to owork today and i woke up at 2pm. My excuse was that I didn't feel well, and I think from my beard my case manager might've guessed i was feeling crazy.
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Sep 12, 2011, 12:15 PM
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i just came from that dark place i l depression just consumed me to the point i had to leave ,iv been well for 2 weeks now & i hope i stay this way for awhile ! there is a light at the end of a tunnel it just depends on how long the tunnel is good luck to ya !wish you the best !
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Sep 12, 2011, 11:54 PM
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Sep 13, 2011, 04:59 AM
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Sometimes i would say about of depression but others i would say sometimes you just get tired of having to do the same thing the same routine then you spiral into this who cares why bother attitude and what for anyway!
Then you know its time for a "vaca" mental emotional ectt.. i had to invite a friend over even though i didn't want company because i won't let anyone see my house dirty and its been few weeks untouched so it made me clean up the darn thing and do those grrr...dishes...push forward ...it's teeth pulling trying to get me outta the house but once i'm out i'm happy i did. i just need someone to light a fire under my butt.
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#13
Sep 13, 2011, 11:18 AM
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Are hot seats the answer?
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#14
Sep 13, 2011, 02:51 PM
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^^^ sounds like an inventhelp.com consultation to me.
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Sep 13, 2011, 06:46 PM
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My wife left me for 8 months and I was bouncing at a bar...having afterhours parties all night long and my house just wreaked of booze and weed. I did not do anything..other than wash my clothes and take showers. Never cleaned the house. I was raising my 10 year old son at the time. It was wild to say the least. My wife came home one day and was shocked at the shape my house was in. She finally came back home and things got back to"normal".
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Sep 13, 2011, 07:03 PM
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