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#26
Oct 06, 2011, 10:54 AM
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By going to parents, counselor or police with this, you are not only helping and protecting yourself but potentially helping this young man get the help he needs. He is doing this for twisted kicks and if his current behavior fails to satisfy him, it can escalate for the worse.
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 krisakira, lynn P., siljie
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Oct 06, 2011, 11:25 AM
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Ive been sexually harrassed and never reported it. Its happened more than once. Ive always regretted it. If i could go back in tome, id report every incident. Good luck. Whatever you decide, just take care of yourself.
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#28
Oct 06, 2011, 11:37 AM
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agree with the posts; get him out and don't tolerate that behavior. 'had to lol at "don't feed the bear" by Gus. That is so very true; they'll take the honey and kill you too.
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| siljie
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#29
Oct 06, 2011, 12:47 PM
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Quote:
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Do not let your fire go out, spark by irreplaceable spark, in the hopeless swamps of the approximate, the not-quite, the not-yet, the not-at-all. Do not let the hero in your soul perish, in lonely frustration for the life you deserved, but have never been able to reach. Check your road and the nature of your battle. The world you desired can be won. It exists, it is real, it is possible, it is yours..~Ayn Rand |
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Oct 06, 2011, 06:47 PM
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I talked to T about it yesterday and she really helped steel me up for it. She said it was sexual harassment and technically assault and that if I really can't get it through his head and threaten him, then that I need to tell my teacher. She said that it's okay if I don't go to the police since she knows how traumatic that would be for me (I'm verrryy shy and never talk about my problems and stuff to other people except her and this site) but that if need be I must tell the teacher. I plan on it this or next week if he still doesn't get his act together.
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#31
Oct 06, 2011, 07:19 PM
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You know... I'd skip the whole "getting it through his head" by threatening him bit. He could take that as a challenge and escalate the behaviour, believing it unlikely that you'd live up to your threats. Just go tell the police.
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| Flooded, siljie
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#32
Oct 17, 2011, 10:03 PM
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How are you doing? Were you able to tell your parents or the school?
I hope you are safe. 
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#33
Nov 06, 2011, 09:50 PM
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Again, I cannot thank you guys enough for all this wonderful advice.
And I am doing better, I talked with T, things are getting sorted out.. |
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#34
Nov 10, 2011, 01:30 AM
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dont even talk to him. and dont even feel like u should be his friend. its dumb to stick around someone who treats u like this
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