I dont trust her

Hello everybody. I know its been a long time since I posted but I have'nt had internet. but anyway.....alot has gone on in the past year. My bro in law, Nathan got out of prison. Before he went in he was addicted to meth and really messed up mentally from using it. He directed his anger at me. But after he came back after serving 5 ys he was nicer and we got to be good friends. He started seeing this woman, Michelle. At first she was his best friends girlfriend but she left the bff for Nate. Well my husband and I have been finding out alot of stuff about her. For one she lies alot about stupid things. Like she told us her eyebrows are thin because herex beat her so bad and split her eyes so bad she dont grow them but her skin looks fine. No scars no discolorations at all. Then she told us the ex just last year sit and stabbed her throat still no scars or nothing. Then she abandoned her 15 yr old son and he is now living in her house by himself it has no heat cuz the furnace broke. And she moved into my grandparent in laws with Nate. She does not allow Nate to talk to me or his brother. My inlaws live next door and everytime me or husband go over there she gives us mean looks and stomps around and treats us bad. Nobody says anything to her about it. My husband texted Nate the other night to see if they wanted to come watch the game on our big tv and Nate told ME to not text him anymore cuz she kept him up till 3am cussing and accusing him and me of being inappropriate. Even though it was my husband texting from my phone. Then she told me she "loves to snort percocets". Shes 42 ys old with grandbabies and she left her nice big house to come live with her boyfriend in one room in the back of his grandparents house. she quit her job to be here. She actually left her teenage daughter in labor at her house because she wanted to be with Nate. Before she moved in she would come out here 15 miles away, to help my bro in laws kid with her homework but her own 15 yr old son is left by himself. Now the poor kid lives alone. I do not trust this woman. She does drugs and lies. When Nate tried to break up with her, she went crazy and threatned to call his p.o. on him and turned his daughter against him and us. and bout blew my and Nates phone up with texts. Im talkin 130 texts in just 6 hours on my phone. I dont know what to do. I do not want her living next door to me. But right now I have no choice. I think something is off about her. There is so much of stuff like this about her. What do yall think? Am I just being overprotective of my bro n law?

And i know my post was long but my husband pointed this out to me last week, Michelle tries to look like me. Like if i wear my hair natural, she curls her hair. A couple weeks ago, I seen her outside and she had on like some animal print shirt with bluejeans and she went in and changed into similar clothes as mine. if i have my nails painted, she paints her nails the same color. she even dyed her black hair auburn like mine. She started talkin like me. for example im country so pronounce ought "art" she does that now all the sudded. My husband thinks its funny but i find it creepy. I havent been outside during the day in a week cuz shes been here constantly and she makes me feel weird and uncomfortable

hey there, it's nice to see your name again, although I wish it were under better circumstances

What I don't really understand about the situation is how much you're forced to interact with this person? can you get away from her/minimize contact? Would it do to talk to her about any of this?

sorry you're going through this, I'd be majorly creeped out too

Hey yeah i've missed all my friends at PC. any way....She lives about a hundred yards across from me at my inlaws. We share a driveway and she parks her car right outside my bedroom window. One day I looked out and she was staring at it. I dont feel comfortable talkin to her about it but I talked to Nate about it and he didnt see it at first but about a month later he started to see it and she got better but then she just went back to being weird. I've been here for over 7 years and now my husband and I are lookin at a house 20 minutes away just to get away from her.

Thunderbear!

By no means do I think you are simply being overprotective. Michelle sounds genuinely . . . odd. I think you are correct in being concerned for Nate and for yourself and family.
This is disturbing. As best you can, document what you are observing and be ready to support it with evidence.