I guess this is goodbye

Someone here has said they are leaving the board almost every time I see them in chat. Some would say that behaviour is attention seeking, and playing with the emotions of the people here. I feel like I am banging my head against a brick wall here. I am having disturbing thoughts .... So, I am sorry, but this is probably my last post. I hate leaving people, but maybe it's better this way.. Perhaps I am just not tolerant enough, or "good" enough to be a friend to some of you.... the ones who I care about the most.

Be good to each other ....



Take care,
Fuzzy

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Please please don't go . You are too valuable to us here and the heck with whoever said that. Can you please stay with us?

You are more than good enough hun...you truly are one of the most special and caring person I have ever met.


Heather

"In three words I can sum up everything I've learned about life - it goes on."
~~Robert Frost

(((((((((((Fuzzybear))))))))))) don't go. I will certainly miss you if you do. I think you're terrific! I hope you get to feeling better soon.

Fuzzy, please don't go...if you are feeling bad, or having disturbing thoughts, then it is because we have not been good enough friends to you. If you were to go, you would leave a hole here that couldn't possibly be filled.

Please stay, my dear friend.
*hugs*
Jo

Oh please don't go! You are one of the people that I trust here. I understand what you are saying, that's why I have told you in pm to post (that special post again) of yours. I feel the same thing that you do. Please stay!

(((((((((((((((((((Fuzzy))))))))))))))))))

forgoten

ditto..........

In giving advice seek to help, not please your friend
SOLON

Fuzzy, you kept me alive the other night without realizing it. If you hadn't been there, I wouldn't be here now.

You matter, please don't go. More than a few will miss you.

Mary Alice

((((((((((Fuzzy)))))))))))) Why don't you consider just taking a break before you decide to leave permanently? I would miss your tender messages if you left

Bear,

I hope you change your mind and decide to stay. It wouldn't be the same with you. And for what it's worth, I would miss you terribly.

Love you,
bp

"Life is not measured by the number of breaths we take, but by the moments that take our breath away."

I hate seeing those sad faces ... I guess maybe I wasn't being totally rational, although I still feel very angry and upset about something. Thanks to all of you who have written to me ... and those who I chatted to today. I will be here for anyone who wants to pm me, anyway.

Love,
Fuzzy

Your namesake, the cute (((((Fuzzy))))), will be very sad without you... I hope you will change your mind and stay = maybe just take a brief break, but then come back... I value you very much. XOXO, Peanut

<font color=blue>HI FROM PEANUT</font color=blue>

I am happy you reconsidered, my friend
Stick around, okay? Talk to you soon

((((((((( Fuzzy))))))))))

DE

In giving advice seek to help, not please your friend
SOLON

That is a good perspective (((((((((Fuzzy)))))))))))

ok now fuzzy I thougt we had talked about this.. and I thougt you said you would not leave..

I amnot going to read the others post, for I love you and I want you to stay..
Do what I have been doing take a break.. I only came out of my shell for someone said you were leavein.. NO NO.. you cant.. you are so needed on this fourm.. Understand more of us love you than you relize

<font color=purple>The way to love anything is to realize that it might be lost.
- G.K. Chesterton
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I am sorry for making a "fuss" and I am very sorry if I worried or hurt anyone .... bp if you are reading this, please stay!!!!!!

But I hope that whoever it is (you know who you are ...) that used to keep threatening to leave in chat will think twice about doing it again. It does hurt people and it can create conflict .... I seem to have hurt at least one person just with this one post ... and I hate hurting people. I am sorry.

I hope we can all start afresh, if need be, and be good friends and help each other out ... and not get bogged down with conflicts, jealousies, stuff from our pasts intruding in the present and misunderstandings. A bit of a tall order, but worth a try! I know I have been wrong sometimes, and I apologize. The friendships we have here are worth the work.... and to bp ... you haven't screwed up. If anyone has screwed up, it is me, and when I screw up, I screw up good! But now I am "moving forward", as de would say ... and leaving some crap behind , and I do not mean that anyone here is crap!

Love to all,
Fuzzy