need to come back here

Hi. I'm back. I dropped away for a few months. Does anybody here remember me?

I'm doing pretty good with my new therapist. She's nice. I'm having trouble with a guy I work with. He's mad at me. I have tried to say hi to him and even baked him banana bread and he still is mad. Am I a bad person?

Since he won't let me talk to him, I relayed a message through another person that I was sorry for writing the note I wrote. It was never my intention to make anyone angry or upset. I was simply requesting that he not do a certain thing anymore that upset me.

I feel guilty for writing a note - which I suppose was a bad idea. Can anyone help?

welcome back, cms

i really don't understand what happened, but i hope that it settles soon. things such as that usually do.

don't hesitate to PM, if you need to.

kd

I don't think it was wrong of you to request he stop some sort of behavior because it was upsetting to you. I personally think you did the right thing. Try not to beat yourself up over the note. This guy sounds childish, IMO.

Welcome back cms.

Welcome back! Yeah but do you remember all of us here at PC??? LOL the site has grown by leaps and bounds. It's great to see a familiar face from the past!

Of course I don't know the whole story either, why or what you said in that note. I found that if it's something other than wonderful, I try not to put it in writing...I did say TRY... heheheh

Move on. Sounds like you did something you regret and you've apologized. The ball is in his court now. IMO