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Apr 26, 2012, 04:57 PM
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Ive done some things i thought id never do. I lost my virginity to someone i love. got angry and kissed another guy(this was last year before i became a total screw up.)Since then ive dated three other guys that werent right for me. i like i let guys treat me like crap because thats what i am and how i feel. i stated smoking at first from curiousity then stress. i guess i really just hate myself and need someone who dosent know me to talk to as weird and stupid as it may be
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 Anonymous37913, Puffyprue
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Apr 27, 2012, 02:03 PM
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Welcome to PC! You are not a bad person just because you did somethings that you feel are not right. Start today and make some changes for the better it is never to late.
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Apr 27, 2012, 02:58 PM
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That's not weird or stupid at all! That's why most of us are on here
 Just know: EVERYONE makes mistakes, does things they never thought they'd do, and has regrets...it's just the bad side of "growing up." But, if you're already recognizing that you have those regrets and can learn from the mistakes...you're already WAY ahead of most people out there, and you have the tools to live the life you want...a life you can be proud of...by just recognizing the wrong moves, and getting help to make the Right Moves. Move #1: Ditch the guy that treats you like crap, and hold out for the one who treats you like a princess Dating is supposed to be FUN and make you feel GOOD about yourself...especially when you're a young'un! Good luck hon! & come here to vent to us strangers ANY TIME 
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Apr 27, 2012, 10:59 PM
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Self hatred is really tough to deal with. But I believe change is always possible, and it takes hard work. I think being on here and posting is a really great step to take!
 I do think the key to start making better choices is to work on yourself, in whatever way makes sense. There are lots of ways to go about that, depending on your situation... I'm glad you posted this and hope you keep letting us know how you are doing.
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