Boundaries

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it can be part of every mental disorder or no mental disorder depending upon other accompanying symptoms.

we cant diagnose your problem, its not what we do here. we tell each other what our problems are, what our own doctors told us it was was in ourselves..

for diagnosis of what this is in you, you will need to contact a treatment provider off line such as your medical doctor, your therapist, your psychiatrist....they can narrow the problem down and tell you what it is in you.

*sends hugs* If you want to talk we're here

Thanks but no point. I was curious about what conditions might cause problems with boundaries/body language/and non verbally but that was wrong.
Wasn't asking anyone to dx me. Just wanted some idea of who might be in the ball park metaphorically speaking.

Sorry you're having these problems Capricorn. Well, speaking from personal experience, having most of the BPD (borderline personality disorder) traits, I have huge problems with boundaries. This would be consistent with what I've read about borderlines who often engage in 'people pleasing' behavior as a result of their absence of self worth. Correctly interpreting body language or non verbal cues can also be a problem because I am hyper vigilant about any sign of rejection from others so i tend to view any possible sign of rejecting behavior as rejection. Lack of reciprocation would be a typical example - I pretty much view it as 100% rejection.