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Jul 23, 2013, 07:37 AM
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I know I'm too needy, I'm trying to survive day to day with what feels like a threatening black cloud constantly over me. I guess I should apologise for being such an idiot, I'm struggling with my Irl relationships (few as they are). A while back I felt I was healing. Now, and not for want of trying to get better...
 I won't go there. Too tired to go back and correct the grammar. (or spelling) Hardly functioning. Just pathetic. I don't expect (or deserve) any replies. Love to everyone else who is in this horrible pain. Peace
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Jul 23, 2013, 07:43 AM
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Aw, Fuzzy. Please be good to yourself. Thank you for sharing what has been on your mind. I will carry some of your pain for you. If we share it, it won't be so bad, ok? I send you love, dear friend.
 
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#3
Jul 23, 2013, 07:49 AM
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Sorry Fuzzybear that this disease has you so down. Please keep sharing.
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Jul 23, 2013, 07:55 AM
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Jul 23, 2013, 08:10 AM
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That neediness can become overwhelming I know. It does start to ebb and flow like the tides with therapy. My T has let me crawl in his lap(symbolically) when that neediness has come up and then watches me as I am able to go off on my own but always lets me know he is there for me(he has proved that over and over). That knowing he is there for me has eased my fear of him abandoning me which in return eases that aching neediness. Well he/we also talks to that needy part to try and understand what it needs and how we can help it not feel so needy.
Is your T like that?
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When a child’s emotional needs are not met and a child is repeatedly hurt and abused, this deeply and profoundly affects the child’s development. Wanting those unmet childhood needs in adulthood. Looking for safety, protection, being cherished and loved can often be normal unmet needs in childhood, and the survivor searches for these in other adults. This can be where survivors search for mother and father figures. Transference issues in counseling can occur and this is normal for childhood abuse survivors. |
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Jul 23, 2013, 08:44 AM
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I can relate to the Black cloud thing, I feel it every day when i first get up in the morning. I feel suicidal in the mornings, then i take my pills and feel alot better,until my next dose.
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Jul 23, 2013, 09:22 AM
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 may your mood be lifted on the wings of beautiful thoughts~
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Jul 23, 2013, 09:27 AM
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you are such a kind person, your compassion for others is always there, be kind to yourself sending you warm thoughts |
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Jul 23, 2013, 02:59 PM
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(((((((( Furrypaws ))))))))
 I've know you a long time and I can truly say that you are one of the kindest people I know, I wish you could see that. I wish you could see that you deserve all the love you can get a million fold. I'm so sorry you are going through so much right now.
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Jul 23, 2013, 08:10 PM
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Though I have not known you as long as Pegasus,
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My dog mastered the "fetch" command. He would communicate he wanted something, and I would fetch it.
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Jul 24, 2013, 08:03 AM
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I've missed seeing you around Fuzzy.
You are a very kind person. I see you as a very giving person. The black dog is a bad dog. Open the front door and throw a sausage out so it goes after the sausage and not you. There is only one very special fuzzybear 
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Jul 24, 2013, 08:09 AM
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Fuzzybear sending hugs your way!((((((((((((((((fuzzybear))))))))))))))))). I can relate to the needy feelings also the black cloud. I know for me sometimes I just get tired, we give and give and when it seems like we need a turn there is nobody for us to lean on. We are here for you never forget that!
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Jul 24, 2013, 08:18 AM
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Huggs!!!!!!!!!!!
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Jul 24, 2013, 12:53 PM
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thank you all lovely people,
With appreciation and love, Fuzzy 
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