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Oct 20, 2006, 08:40 PM
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Can you help ,We have tried everything to get this child to quit lieing on different things . She is getting everyone who is trying to help her againent eacher other. Any help on this one ? WE HAVE TRIED EVERYTHING NOTHING IS WORKING. : Thanks (  
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Oct 20, 2006, 08:47 PM
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Maybe she needs some counseling? You didn't mention her age, but this article talks about children and lying issues.
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Oct 20, 2006, 09:23 PM
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Her aga is a 11 and she is in couling and has been for awhile and isn't helping much eather.
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Oct 20, 2006, 09:35 PM
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Ok but you are going to have to list many of the "things" you have tried. If she is mounting each of you against each other, then you need to show a united front. This means you all have to agree on at least some aspects of the effort, and if possible, confront her with that effort all at the same time (in one way or another, if not physically be in her presences then open letters stating the same acknowledgement.)
WHAT types of lies is she telling? Can you figure out her main reasoning?
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Oct 20, 2006, 11:32 PM
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hey sometimes the children believe that they are actually telling the truth also known as ED i have taught a kid like that that no matter what you did he insisted that he was telling the truth even if we had him on tape
anyway calling her out on it consistently over and over again will sometime set in or sometimes they grow out of it
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Oct 21, 2006, 04:22 AM
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my son tried to pit me, his therapist, the DHS caseworker, and the DHS social worker that was supervising visitation all against each other. what we ended up doing was telling my child - I can't do anything about that right now I have to talk to Sandy, Tracy, Joanne, Cindy, and then we will all decide what to do about this together. And then we followed through with talking together to discuss what he was saying By saying this he slowly learned he could not manipulate all of us against each other. And then he was confronted with his behavior during family therapy and or individual therapy so that he knew consequenses followed the lies he told just as fast as we discussed them.
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