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Oct 15, 2006, 03:03 PM
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hi, i stoped hurting, but i think i hit another extreme, because i am numb, i cant feel anything, it worries me because that is not what i wanted....still no word from my friend .....
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Oct 15, 2006, 03:51 PM
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sorry you did not hear from your friend...It may take time! I am sending you a hug (((((((((((hug)))))))))) and hope you feel better soon!!!!
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Oct 15, 2006, 04:56 PM
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Numbness is another way of coping. I hope you hear soon.
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Oct 16, 2006, 09:03 PM
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Maybe you are going through a sort of grieving process? Seems like this friend means a great deal to you, it also seems like things are coming to a close with this relationship (or already has). You don't have to lose a person to death to grieve for them, it might not be as prominent as when a person has died, but it's still a form of grief. Maybe this is something you are going through?
Or you can look at it as phases of closure...whichever way (((tommylee))) I am sorry things did not work out the way you had wanted. hugs Lisa
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Oct 17, 2006, 08:25 AM
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(((((((((( tommylee ))))))))))
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Oct 17, 2006, 01:59 PM
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Sorry you feel the loss of your friend.. I too tend to cope with negative emotions through numbness... I hope you find your way out of that place soon.
Hang in there.. Faith
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Oct 18, 2006, 11:13 PM
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thank you guys so much for your words, i love you all.....
i still hope i`ll hear from her ....
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Oct 18, 2006, 11:59 PM
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Tommy....
If people we love pass on..... as long as our love for them stays strong & we remember them..... they will never leave us. |
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#9
Oct 19, 2006, 12:36 AM
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(((( tommy )))) sending hugs your way i know about numbness to i can't feel any pain any trauma ive been through i hide it behind a smile it stinks but you know sometimes its better at least for now
hope you hear from your friend
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Oct 19, 2006, 06:43 PM
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I agree with Alisandria that you are going thru the process of grieving. I've experienced this and can say the stages of grief waffle back and forth, not in any clear-cut pattern. You will get thru this.
Healing thoughts, Patty |
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Oct 22, 2006, 11:25 PM
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thank you guys so much for your kind words, it` means so much to me, i guess i just need to be optimistic. it`s this crazy state that i m in. On the out side it look ok, hiding behind a smile. On the inside i am a mess....much love
Tommy
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#12
Oct 23, 2006, 03:19 PM
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Tommy, I am new and a stranger here. But when I read your post, I wanted to share with you a hug.
Through all the things in my life, the emotion you express was the hardest of all to carry. I even have a saying that I came up with from those days: "The worst feeling is NOT" Hugs to you, Wendi
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#13
Oct 23, 2006, 06:15 PM
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Wendi, thank you, you are such a sweetheart, i really appreaciate everything. much love
Tommy
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