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Nov 20, 2006, 07:31 PM
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someone came to my daughter's door the other night and wanted her to let them in. this person was telling my daughter she needed help. my daughter lives in a not so good area so she would not open the door. well today that woman came into where my daughter works again asking for her help. my daughter does not know this woman at all. the woman was saying she is homeless but how would she know where my daughter lives and works? she only works about a block away from home. the police I spoke with said it sounds like a stalking case but they can't do anything until they can catch her at either place. I am 80 miles away!!! errrrrrrrrrrrr
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Nov 20, 2006, 08:44 PM
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How terrifying. What's worse, is the police can't do anything about it. Is there anyone who can stay with your daughter for awhile, so she isn't alone?
She may need to get a restraining order against her. Wishing her and you the best of luck. Linda
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Nov 20, 2006, 08:44 PM
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Yikes!
  (((((((bebop)))))))) I hope they manage to the woman - that is really alarming that that can happen.
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Nov 20, 2006, 08:47 PM
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That's really creepy, tell your daughter to be extra safe.
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Nov 20, 2006, 08:48 PM
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That is so scary. I hope they get this woman and find out what the problem might be.
(((( Be and daughter ))))
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Nov 20, 2006, 08:59 PM
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That is terrifying. I hope that the police catch her in the act. That's not cool that your daughter is in that situation. *hugs* My thoughts and prayers are with you.
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Nov 20, 2006, 09:42 PM
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In my experience, a RO won't keep anyone away from a person or keep them from harming them. The only thing it does is when they do, it makes it a felony rather than a misdemeanor.
I'd tell your daughter to keep a heavy baseball bat handy at home and a can of maze on her key ring or her pocket... then LET 'ER RIP!! Not to mention her cell phone with 911 on a single dial option.  Makes me so mad that people scare others like that!!Ya know?! Just had a thought... if that woman comes to her front door again, have your daughter keep her talking, ask her to wait just a second (tell the woman she's getting dressed or something) and while she's keeping her busy, call 911. Be, try not to worry. You're daughter is an adult and can handle herself, right?  
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Nov 20, 2006, 11:14 PM
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thanks everyone. the police told me they need to catch the woman at either my daughter's house or work. right now my hubby is with her since he is closer down there than I am. I am really worried about this since my daughter told me the woman looked like she was on crack. yes my daughter is an adult and married but her hubby is a truck driver and never home during the week. just keep us in your prayers. thanks again everyone!
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Nov 21, 2006, 01:35 AM
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My stomach just went. How awful for you all. Lets hope they catch this person before too long. Pretty scary stuff.
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Nov 21, 2006, 02:20 AM
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pepper spray is handy and works well. Also, are there any cameras where she works? (((hugs))) Does she have a cell phone with picture options? Or a small camera she can carry? Often just taking someone's pic will scare them off.
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Nov 21, 2006, 08:14 PM
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froggie thanks hon. hubby spent the night with her last night.
sky hmmm not sure if her cell has pic ability or not but great idea!!
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Nov 21, 2006, 08:23 PM
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Does daughter have a videocam? If not, does she have a camera that puts the date on film? She really needs to get a dated and timed pic or film of that woman.
Please keep us posted. (((((((((( Daughter, Be & family ))))))))))))))) Hugs, Jan
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Nov 22, 2006, 08:48 AM
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Jan no she doesn't hon but that is a good idea also!
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