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Old Mar 16, 2007, 02:31 PM
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I would voluntarily say that I am going and I cannot be sure when I will return! I have been trying to come here daily despite not being able to really post but at this point I think I need to stop coming here altogether.

I need to lower my blood boiling point!!

My anxiety has steadily climbed over the last month or 2 in terms of this site and (not) being able to navigate or post. It just isn't happening. I am not looking for technical advice. That has been done and it hasn't helped. I do not believe the problem is mine. Whatever the problem is though - I cannot be here and become so fiercely frustrated because reading posts takes so long and posting itself simply stops the wheel turning altogether.

I am lonely, and I am tired. I want to be here and socialize but it isn't happening. I will be so lonely without this place but I can't take the frustration anymore. I have had enough. So for now - I am bowing out and protecting myself.

I am deeply heartsore about not currently being able to reply to the wonderful folk that supported me so wonderfully on the Caregivers Forum. I still intend to reply to each of you .... sometime.

I'm sorry my friends, but my frustration is sincere. I am hoping this post will be entered, but I am not going to wait 30 odd minutes to see if it has.

I will miss you!
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Old Mar 16, 2007, 03:52 PM
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Old Mar 16, 2007, 05:11 PM
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have you thought of pming folks , might help your anxiety level, we are here for you
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Old Mar 16, 2007, 05:43 PM
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((((Sabrina))))

So sorry you are having such trouble and frustrations here. The only suggestion I have is that maybe you can go to a local library with internet connection (most of them have it now) and connect there? Just a thought.

Take good care of yourself and I hope the issues go away for you and you can come back.

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Old Mar 16, 2007, 06:07 PM
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((((((((((Sabrina)))))))))))

Can you get some help with your computer in the 3D world?? I'm sorry things aren't working out for you, because I'll miss my friend.

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Old Mar 16, 2007, 07:41 PM
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sorry you are still having problems, hope you dont stay away for long, take care of your self
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Old Mar 17, 2007, 12:33 AM
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Dear Sabrina,

I think we care about you! and here's empathy: thinking about your frustration and hoping you're feeling better soon. Sorry to hear it's been so difficult to read and post!

Here's problem-solving: defragment your hard drive, or do other recommended things, or... are you having trouble with other websites?
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Old Mar 17, 2007, 02:57 PM
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Hi folks.

I do know that people care - I am well aware of that. I am not running away and threatening goodbye for attention - I truly have been struggling with this place.

Nothemama - pm creates the same frustration - almost never loads. Sometimes, if I'm lucky and leave it for about an hour.

No defrag or any other cleaning is required on my pc! Actually - I got to post all my (lengthy) replies on my my thread over at Caregivers and I also got to this thread without too much trouble so that "says" to me that the problem is simply not mine.

I don't want to leave. I love it here. You people are another family to me.

But if rage sets in - I have to protect myself.

If the posting is happening right now - I need to take advantage.
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Old Mar 17, 2007, 03:46 PM
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Old Mar 17, 2007, 04:11 PM
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I know the frustration you're feeling, Sabrina. Computers can get really complicated sometimes. It MUST be something with this site or maybe the time of day/night that you're logging on. I have a problem with the site loading if I try to log on after midnight my time. It's because the software is doing something on it's own that is required. However, Doc John has been able to tweek the software at time and that has helped me with the problems I've had. If you can manage it, PM him. I would do it for you but don't have the pertinent info.

Got my fingers crossed that you read this or my PM.

One more word. I never thought ... Mandalas! Hubby will be back soon.

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Old Mar 17, 2007, 04:37 PM
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(((((((((Sabrina))))))))))) so sorry you have had such a hard time...!!! Maybe you can still PM people at least to stay in touch!!! But you do have to think of yourself first...take care and drop in anytime you are up to it!!!!
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