Dexter?? Inkblot?? :O

Where are you guys? I'm getting worried about you! Please let us know how things are, please?





<font color=blue>"Our doubts are traitors and make us lose the good we oft might win by fearing to attempt" --Shakespeare</font color=blue>

I just made a (brief) post to update you all on the situation. As for me personally, I don't know. I have a T appointment next week. My child's T asked me to sign a release so that he and my T could talk. They'll have a lot to go over with this new neighbor stuff now. Anyway, I'm almost afraid of what my T will ask when I go in for my appointment, or what my kid's T will ask me at my kid's next appointment. I did tell them both before that this guy was touching me, but somehow I don't think either of them realized just what happened. I'm not sure it clicked with them. I was surprised (and relieved?) when neither of them asked me specifically what happened when he touch me. I updated my kid's T a couple nights ago about my plan for seeing my kids for the next weekend, and added a mention of my run-in with the neighbor that night. I told him how I mentioned to the guy that things had gone farther than I expected. I was still aggravated or frustrated by him when I called, so I'm sure it was in the sound of my voice, too. I thought that if I told him about that, it might help it "click" as to what happened in case it went over his head last time.

Why don't you just tell your T exactly what happened? You need to tell someone that can help you! All we can do, here on the board, is worry about you!

PLEASE! Go to the police! Don't call them and have them come to your place. You go to them so your neighbor doesn't become aware of what you're doing. You're in danger!!





<font color=blue>"Our doubts are traitors and make us lose the good we oft might win by fearing to attempt" --Shakespeare</font color=blue>

i agree with septmorn ink, you should tell anyone that you can exactly what is going on so that they may help you. if not your t then a friend who can help. and do go to the police in any case.

i don't think you should have anything to worry about with your t... this situation is not a reflection on you, it is an unexpected circumstance with this creepy guy moving in nearby. your t may be able to offer advice with dealing with him and/or help finding sources to help you fix this situation.

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i have been around but last night i got out to my support group again so that's why i wasn't here since yesterday afternoon. I slept all afternoon and when i woke i didn't procrastinate i just got ready to go to the meeting .

I went out to dinner with them afterwards so it was a late night... i watched tv and went to bed afterward without going on my computer. then this morning there were troubles with the site and i couldn't get on. i have been working on my website today to pick up the slack. i'm selling books and posters and dvd's right through my website now, from amazon.com and allposters.com. i haven't added books to the depression section yet.

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dex, that is terrific that you got out to your support group. Don't worry about the sleeping, just be sure to give yourself lots and lots of credit for getting yourself up and out.

I'm proud of you!

*hugs*
mj

Alright!! You got out to your support group and had dinner with them! Excellent! Marvelous! I'm so happy and proud for you!

Don't worry too much about the sleeping. You're so hard on yourself and try so hard that no doubt you exhaust yourself.







<font color=blue>"Our doubts are traitors and make us lose the good we oft might win by fearing to attempt" --Shakespeare</font color=blue>